ex comments

[whoops]

why if we speak and i try not to does he say things that upset me for weeks:

 

ie: if you arent married at 35 we can get it together then

I hope you arent alone at 40 i would feel so bad

I dont want another one i miss my friend

 

AHHHHHHHGGGGGGGGGGG!

[ranlian]

wow... that's some very let-me-drag-you-on-a-string-for-a-while words. people say these things so that they don't feel badly about what they have done. they're ultimately selfish statements...

[friscodj]

And why are you putting up with this abuse? No one's forcing you to talk to him.

 

If you're getting upset for weeks when you talk to your ex (or anyone for that matter) you shouldn't be talking to your ex.

[itsallgrand]

Simple solution. Don't talk to the ex.

 

He whines and now he's got you whining. Stop the insanity!

[whoops]

very true - i dumped him though but i think it was forced by him and he feels guilty for not dealing with things earlier - he likes to run away from things no balls see!

 

I have not replied to his texts etc but he called and i didnt realise it was him - i should have put it down straight away but it felt good to hear his laughing voice - god i am pathetic

 

You are right he is selfish and feels guilty like he messed up - i never said that to him and he thinks i angry with him i never said that either - guilt hey its a beautiful thing.

[skyjuice]

Hi

 

I am glad that you dumped him. He very inconsiderate.

[lolobolo]

hi, yes - move on, although a will tell you an interesting tale...

I was with someone from the age of 22 until about 26 on and off, we always wanted it to work , but somehoe we both knew it wouldn't go anywhere!

after a few years of dating hell on both sides and moving 3000 miles apart we both decided to try a make a proper go of it! strange huh!

My point is when we decided to give it a break all that time ago, we said to each other. If we still want to be together when we are thirty we will get married (tongue in cheek at the time!)

Time is the best teacher...

I was nowhere near ready, him either, at the atage where me met to commit properly.

Keep him as a friend, but make sure it is jut friendship, and it is on your terms.

You don't need him to be happy and fullfilled, send it out!!!!

But for now.

Ignore his nonsense sincere or not, and don't whatever you do be dangled on a string by this man.

If he wants to talk the talk- make him walk the walk- or walk away

 

lovexxxx

[sparkle1]

ex's always try and keep you hanging on - won't let go completely.

 

Ignore and delete honey!! don't let him put you down or upset you. no one has that right - ever.

 

XX

[Spugly Fuglet]

Now you know why there your X, this you can do with out so you did

[JoeWho]

Just dont talk to him anymore. He is very selfish to string you along like that. Once you cut him off you will begin to feel better. Dont let him do that to you, you deserve way more!

[rmpavlock]

He's trying to make you feel bad. Don't talk to him or he'll just keep it up.

[ImThatGirl]

ie: if you arent married at 35 we can get it together then

 

 

 

I'll never understand why someone would say "I'll marry you if you're still available in 10 years."

 

I have a friend who has several guy friends that say this. I think my response would be "IF you're not able to see how lucky you are to have me now then get lost" (or something else I'm not allowed to say here.)