xoxevanescencexox Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Ok I like one of my friends not love but only like her alot, I'm a lesbain and she is bi. We have always talked to eachother sort out eachothers problems like when we need someone talk to. And we met eachother in school last year dearing December, and i confessed I liked her and I've dated a few ppl since then and she dated like about two. And recently she asked me over aim Her: "do you know any bi/lez chicks that would date me?" Her: "I just can't believe I asked you that lol" Me: *cough* Me: single Me: *cough* Her: ohh really when did this happen? Me: um... god i can't remember lol Her: well like you keep telling me you love me as a sis Me: because I thought you seen me as one 2 Her: I see you as a CLOSE friend not like a sis don't take it the wrong way tho. Me: I'm so comfused *blond moment* Me: would you ever date me? Her: i don't know Her: maybe I don't get it tho like what dose she mean she sees me as a CLOSE friend? She told me she would never kiss anyone makeout or anything with anyone unless she was dating them. Link to comment
Imaginary Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Guess she was saying that she wouldn't consider you a sibling, or, family, that she doesn't see you the way you see her. (a bit less maybe?) That's what I get... Link to comment
xoxevanescencexox Posted October 18, 2006 Author Share Posted October 18, 2006 But like if she dates another chick or someone I know I'm going to get really, really, jelouse and I'm not even kidding you. =[ I can't help it i just know thats how its going to be god I hate this sometimes... Link to comment
Tigris Posted October 18, 2006 Share Posted October 18, 2006 Why don't you explain that to her? Maybe she'll agree that friends are a 'NO GO' area. Link to comment
xoxevanescencexox Posted October 18, 2006 Author Share Posted October 18, 2006 What do you mean I'm so comfused now Link to comment
Tigris Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 You said that you'd already be jealous, but it would be worse it it was someone you already knew. I'm advising you that you should both keep away from dating your friends, because that would be too hurtful for the other one. Why don't you just tell her how you feel it would be a lot easier than you being jealous? Link to comment
capricornprncess Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 i agree with tigris. tell her. GL! Link to comment
xoxevanescencexox Posted October 20, 2006 Author Share Posted October 20, 2006 I found out threw one of my best friends that she bought me a flower =] and Might ask me out tomorrow i so can't wait Link to comment
capricornprncess Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 congrats evanescence!!!! goodluck! Link to comment
xoxevanescencexox Posted October 20, 2006 Author Share Posted October 20, 2006 She gave me the flower but never asked me out =[ Link to comment
Imaginary Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Well, but it IS something. Maybe it's something you can look forward to. But if she doesn't would it really hurt if YOU ask her out? You can't just wait until a meteorite that says "get together" falls near you two... Link to comment
NKP Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Yeah why dont you just go and ask her out, she has already may on move now its your turn to make a move hun Link to comment
Tigris Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I agree she's given you the flower, you should ask her out. Good luck Link to comment
xoxevanescencexox Posted October 21, 2006 Author Share Posted October 21, 2006 I sent her a message over myspace and it says whats up beautiful? And theres a icon that says will you go out with me []yes [] no and another icon that says everyone has a reason to waske up mine is you... and i put So tell me something sweet heart........ Will you be my sweet heart today, tomorrow, and forever? and another icon with flowers its beautiful but you know how you can tell if someone read your message well she didn't but didn't reply back i would have given her a flower today that says on ever pittle will you go out with me but shes bissy all day today -sigh- I just hope she ansers back soon Link to comment
xoxevanescencexox Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Omg She Said Yes Im The Happyest Girl Ever!!!!!!! Link to comment
Imaginary Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 GOOD FOR YOU GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I bet you're THRILLED Link to comment
xoxevanescencexox Posted October 28, 2006 Author Share Posted October 28, 2006 Ok so, she broke up with me Wedsday saying she was still in love with her ex and all. But I searesly cryed my eyes out for her. I wanna be with her more then ANYTHING!! And I wanna show her that shes the only one I'm willing to be, so how do I do all that with out like coming out and saying it. But like I said shes still not over her ex thats why she broke up with me. =[ Link to comment
Tigris Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 I'm really sorry that things didn't work out the way we all hoped. You can either still be friends with her (which is going to break your heart everytime your see her or give you a 'buzz' of hope) or you'll have to go NC. It's going to be a hard decision, but you have to make it alone. Link to comment
xoxevanescencexox Posted October 30, 2006 Author Share Posted October 30, 2006 ok so she wrote in her boliten on myspace or what ever saying " the one i loved, i still love. don't get me wrong i always will. i kinda like 3 others...yeah i know...three...its so confusing..." And we already went out but didn't last long and * * * *, and I'm searesly going to torn apart if she dates someone else. I've been waiting for a year in a half to be with her and this is what i fliping get grr.. this is so not cool. -sigh- so like what do i do? is there anything i can do? besides sit back and watch my heart brake Link to comment
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