quick question for ladies

[caasiopia68]

i hear its more intimate(?) to go ahead without asking, but im scared of her not being ready so is it better for the guy to ask if he can kiss you or go ahead and do it?

[rose2summer]

Definitely go ahead and do it.

 

I was listening to this radio show where they discussed it and I thought it was so funny that a guy would actually ask for a kiss.

 

Don't ask her or she will think you are insecure.

 

If she is giving the right signals, leaning into you with body language, smiling, seems into you, then go for it.

 

I know if a guy asked me first, I would say no, because it showed lack of initiative and confidence on his part. Not being superficial, but I would respect him more, if he took the lead.

 

What have you got to lose? Nothing.

 

Hugs, Rose

[Newo Ikkin]

Agreed, Rose2Summer.

 

In for the kill, lad.

She'll be pleasantly surprised, I'm sure. x

[coollady1957]

I am also in agreement with Rose. I think if the signals are right and you are feeling the urge to kiss her, then I would say go for it.

[southerngirl]

Im going to echo the other replies...

 

JUST DO IT... kiss her and see what happens.

[SeaBisquit]

i agree.... go for the moment it feels right.

[AnotherBrokenDoll]

Ummm depends... Some girls think its romantic. I personally think it'd ruin the moment and make things awkward. but hey to each their own...

[A James Z]

I know you addressed this post to the "ladies" but I will give my opinion. I agree with the above posts and never, ever, ever ask for anything, including sex.

 

You definitely need to watch all the signals: is she touching you at all, do you have eye contact, is she laughing at your jokes, and so on. When I decide to kiss someone for the fist time I usually pick a moment when we are alone, and the conversations lulls a little bit. Then I lean in really slow so she knows its coming and has time to react if she really does not want to be kissed.

 

But show confidence and just do it. If you think about it too much it wont happen. Same with sex. If you feels it's the right time to make that move, just do it. Gently guide her to the bedroom while you are kissing her, or something to that effect, but never ask, "do you want to have sex." If she feels its right then she will go along. If not, she may want to talk about it first to decide if it's the right time, and then you talk. But never ask.

 

I made those mistakes in the past, and girls respect you so much more when you go for what you want, when you "take what you want." That really turns them on, the confidence you give off by taking what you desire. =)

[NKP]

Never ever ask, when i guy ask alot of girls say no (even tho they want it), but just go make a move and she will most likely kiss you back

[Ms. Babydoll]

I love it when my boyfriend kisses me without me knowing it is going to happen, I think it is more intimate and it puts more thrill into it all, sweeping the girl off her feet.

[jsudz2430]

Just do it, I personally wouldn't ask, if she wants you to kiss her, you'll know, you might be second guessing yourself, but just go with your gut

[MissyJ]

Just go for it. Depending where you are? If you are inthe middle of a supermarket then no, but if at home or somewhere romantic then defo.

[NKP]

Hey dude how it go? Did you end up kissing her?

[Jeremy_Z]

If you get dumped, accept it and don't fight it. If you manage to get

undumped, you'll only get dumped again later. Once you get dumped a few times

and find that no 2 and no 3 are OK, you'll lose the fear of it

[jodiedee]

Buddy Go For It Like Why Ask If She Doesnt Want It She Will Find Away Out