confusion!

[bdsmslv]

Okay, Let me just start off by saying that I am into the whole bondage and master/slave thing. I currently have a master, I have strong feelings for him although he does has other "pets". He says he feels the same for me and he does NOT lie. Okay...now my problem: before i met my master i liked my friend (who is a girl) and i told my other friend about it. SO my friend told the girl i liked and now she is all excited and wants to date me....How do i tell her i have a master and just want to be friends with her?

[rose2summer]

Hey and welcome to ENA!

 

It's best to be direct about it if you choose not to pursue a romantic relationship with her.

 

When you see her in person, say, "hey, I am actually involved with someone else right now, but I am really flattered you are interested in me."

 

You don't need to tell her of your bdsm activities with this man, unless you want to.

 

Hugs, Rose

[kelkel]

Bondage , master and slave thing..........way kool !

Ahh well just tell her that right now you liek her but all u can offer is friendship!

[vandgsmom]

I agree with Rose... the specifics aren't important when telling someone that now is not the right time for a relationship.

 

You might tell her that you aren't exactly "in" a relationship, but that you have already started a casual thing with someone else and that to you implies a commitment.

 

That way if your master finds another pet, you haven't closed all your doors with this girl...

[bdsmslv]

Thank you all for the positive replys. Most people would be like "......thats crazy...or thats weird.." thanks for not doing that ! ^_^