introanna Posted September 23, 2006 Share Posted September 23, 2006 I just moved in with my boyfriend, about 6 weeks ago. And we used to have so much fun, and he and I loved having sex. But now that we have moved in together I feel like he just doesn’t care anymore, I confronted him about it and he says he’s just feeling kind of stressed out with his new job, and doesn’t feel the urge right now. That was a few weeks ago and now I ask and he says he cant because it hurts him too much (he has a hernia and wont go get it fixed). I know all of this stuff is true, but man I need something, he doesn’t even kiss me like he used to or try to make up for it in other ways. Its really draining on me sexually and my self-esteem. I feel like a piece of crap. Also I can home and on the computer was a search for he pictures of hot models. I mean is he just no attracted to me anymore? He says he loves me and he thinks im hot and finds me attractive. I feel like he lying because his actions do say that at all. I dont know what to do, i'm in need of sexual attention. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 23, 2006 Share Posted September 23, 2006 How long have you been dating? Do you guys think you might have moved in together too quickly and now the allure is gone? From past situations, I have come to realize that when people get comfortable with the other person and the situation, sometimes the allure of the relationship wears off. Link to comment
introanna Posted September 23, 2006 Author Share Posted September 23, 2006 we have known eachother for a few years and have been together for about a year, and i do love him and i know hes the one for me, and i know he loves me, i do believe that. Hes awsome the best thing that ever happed to me. and i could be with him forever, but i a very sexual person... i just dont know how to go about fixing this problem. i'm not going to go eles where for my needs, and i hope to god he isnt.. but i'm shure he wont. i just need a way to get through to him that i need something! Link to comment
introanna Posted September 24, 2006 Author Share Posted September 24, 2006 and i just dont get why he looks up porn of girls if hes has no urge to do anything, i hope he finds me atractive. what do i do? Link to comment
Momene Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 Stress does play havoc with a man's sex drive. He's not making that up. Try a late holiday. It might work. Link to comment
Rabican Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 tell him you need some lovin' unless he broke his tongue he shouldnt have an excuse.... Link to comment
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