How many peopl are in pain?

[AdriSnow]

I want to know how many people are feeling sad or hurt over a breakup or because someon else.

Explain what your feeling. And what you want to do about it.

Thanks!!!!!!!!!!

[sparkle1]

I'm feeling a bit jilted at the moment!

 

In what way do you mean???

 

Are you feeling sad over a break up?

[AdriSnow]

Yea I am.

I think I'm upsessed, it's weird. ( I didn't speel that right).

How are you doing today ?

[sparkle1]

You're upset? have you recently broken up with someone?

 

I'm feeling jilted today becoz i done something silly when i didn't realise i had...and the guy i really really like is p*ssed at me, which is making me very sad

 

What is your story?

[AdriSnow]

guy dumped me and is wearing all the clothes i bought him on dates with other ladys. great.. right I gtg I would like to know more about hwat happened with you. And wouldnt mind telling my story. bye for now =)

[sparkle1]

Nothing has happened with me....its a misunderstanding and i don't quite know what i done wrong...but as with all things in life - it will sort itself out one way or another.

 

He is wearing the clothes you brought him on dates with other girls? You need to mention more about your situation...

[TheFallenShadow]

i know that today, i am not feeling so well, very depressed and feeling very much alone. I know that my XGF bought me clothes and i cant bring myself to even wear them.....because the hurt is still to great...and the lingering unknown is killing me....i wish she would just talk to me, so that i know one way or another, that way she can, well i am sure she has gotten on with her life.....

I love her, and just want her back...i cant get her out of my head....

[allein]

yes, i'm hurting today. Just like I hurt everyday. What do I want to do? Well, I guess I"ll go rent a video game. It won't take away the hurt, nothing ever does for me. But I'm not going to let it stop me from living. I just live with a broken heart. Oh well. It sux, but what can you do? Nada... just let time run it's course and hopefully it will take the pain away. I've been broken up now almost 1 year and still think of my ex daily. uh boo and uh hiss

[AdriSnow]

dang. Ive been broken up for 4 months and I have been thinking about him about 30 times a day. checking my email and my phone way to often, jusst to see if he called. Is that weird or normal?

[Zerohero]

Every now and then I have a stupid relaps, but I'm fine.

[meant_to_love]

My first boyfriend and I broke up six months ago.. thats a lonnnng time really. But the hurt and pain is still fresh like an open wound on my heart that wont heal. During the day I try to lead a normal life and hiding my depression, try to forget it. At night though its weird my feelings are magnified.. I have time to think stupid thoughts and "feel" alone and miss him and feel hurt and confused. Sometimes I drive to some deserted parking lot after my evening college classes and listen to music and just ball my eyes out. (Love and heartbreak can make you unhealthy and crazy like never before) But the next morning I go about my business of work, school, etc. and pretend Im not dying inside. tears*sigh* : ( I miss my smile.

[Snow Patrol]

My only girlfriend (Jackie) of 2 1/2 years broke up with me over a month ago. I try to say it will get better, and by continuing on I'm giving myself every chance that it will. For most of the 3 weeks I've been back at univeristy I've been able to hide my feelings and act like everything's normal. The last few days I've been unable to do that. I can't go on pretending. I can't pretend my whole life, and that's the most depressing thing, knowing that the only person you would want to be with is no longer with you. It hurts incredibly not being in contact with her. True love can't be chosen, once it happens there's no way for me to deny or change my feelings. People say it gets better. It hasn't and of course I really want it to get better but I know it won't. How can people apply that generic template to your life? - "It'll get better. There is someone better out there etc" Sure, for some it does better. But what about all those who don't? I know how deep my love is for her. Severing that once in a lifetime connection hurts like none other. I would rather be shot than have to feel this indefinitely. Horrible, I know, but the truth. I'm hanging on, but only just.

[AdriSnow]

Wow. TO be honest with myself I went to my ex's house watched a movie and laughed. He told me how much he cares about me. then brings me to my car. He said somthing while I was leaving his car but I closed the door . I felt really good after that!!

[adoring the unatainable]

Yes...you know when you relaise you've thrown away someone, someone important, someone important, someone who keeps you alive.

 

well thats me! Plus that someone has someone esle.

 

What do i want ot do about?

 

2 options are presented to me...

 

1. tell him and risk everything....(no i dont like this one, too scared!)

2. let time tell....everrthing works out in the end...doesn't it?

[temujin]

9.5 months and still breaking down at times over the memories.. but generally very much better than when it started... just have to bear with it and wait for it to fade with time..

[TheRedQueen]

I would venture to say that there are millions of people who are deeply in pain worldwide, millions.

[AdriSnow]

Ha I fell for his lies again and had sex with my ex. About four days ago now he hasnt spoken to me and I am about to cry. JUST TERRIBLE

[SherriLi]

I feel like some is ripping my heart out and stomping it on the ground every second of this long horrible hateful icy day

[AdriSnow]

I feel so happy when I see him like today, then he does somethign stupid. I begin to disect the entire time i was with him and hurt myself more. Anyone else seem to do this??