crushes on other guys when you have a boyfriend!

[Yvette84]

Hey, So I was wondering if it's normal to still have crushes on other guys when you're in a relationship? I don't mean acting upon them. I know it's not right. I just want to know if it's normal because I've always been that way with guys, even if I was in love with my bf, I'd still end up having crushes on other guys!!! Anyone else got that problem?? and now I have a crush on one of my paitents (im a PT aide) and I have to ultrasound him with his shirt off!) I know he likes me too...but I also know it's not right because of my bf...so why do I have a crush on this other guy??? I LOVE my bf!!?

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

Be assured that if you DO love your boyfriend, you won't act upon it.

 

If you do act upon it, it's a good sign you don't love your boyfriend.

 

You, as a free adult, have a choice.

[Anna.]

I'm completely in-love, but I get little crushes all the time. The bf and I have a rule: look all you want, but you can't touch.

I don't think it's unhealthy.

[southerngirl]

Your still a living breathing sexual being. Crushes are normal.

 

As long as your not 'cheating' that is.

[Psylocke960]

When I'm with a guy, he's the only guy that matters. I mean, when I interact with other men I find attractive, have a great personality, etc...I've never found myself to have crushes on them or wondering what it would be like if I was with them.

[Ms. Babydoll]

Having crushes are normal, I have a bit of a thing for a guy in my boyfriends soccer team but I see it going nowhere because I love my boyfriend dearly.

[Arch Angel]

I think finding others attractive is very normal even if you are attached. Everyone can appreciate beauty and still be committed.