hosswhispra Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 You go to your friend and you tell him you are not going really well, they tell you.. im not talking to emotional people. The kind of friend you would do anything for, and did anything you could whenever they needed you. Someone who always said, ill always be there for you.. but the last 3 times i talked to him, thats what he answered me. i dont know what to think, its true.. im not going well, i needed to talk to him.. and the fact that he pushed me away made me feel worst.. i always give everything that i have to him, my time.. my energy.. and i know he cares, but sometimes he answer me things like that.. i dont know what to say to him.. Ah, yes, I have had this happen to me too. What I usually do is that I stop talking with that person....then I go and talk with my girlfriends over pizza and a glass of wine. Girlfriends are forever! Link to comment
robowarrior Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 They say that in bad times fake friends walk out of the door while real friends walk into the door. That guy is no different from being a fake friend. Probably just wants you for sex or something, and the moment you become a burden he wants you out of his life. Really in terms of emotional support your better off here at enotalone, not saying that we're magical or something but that response of your friend is just terrible especially for someone like you who is reaching out for help. Link to comment
TheRedQueen Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 Not a friend at all! This guy sounds more like a selfish @$%^#. His response to you is despicable, heartless and borderline cruel. THIS GUY IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. Link to comment
NKP Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 Is he having any problems at the moment or anything? Link to comment
Haven Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 Unless his mom just died or something, he's not your friend. I would suggest not wasting your time and energy on him any longer. Link to comment
Tigris Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 Most guys don't know how to deal with girl problems. My suggestion is you find a girl that you can talk to, they're much more supportive. Link to comment
Azual Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Agreed - Unless you can find a compassionate, caring, willing to listen kind of guy - And they're rare... sadly enough... Link to comment
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