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How do I get him to talk to him... I have been trying to get his account unbanned for the last 2 weeks, calling almost everyday... but they dont wanna listen.. and I need information from Bryan about his account and he dont wanna talk.. so i dont have these information that would help him.. I dont want my relation with him to end because of a game.. I know he is pissed.. and i cant wait for him to come back home.. so i can ask him these infos again.. and know if he is ok.. I just want him to talk to him, he usually do.. but lately he keep pushing me away..

I have know my boyfriend for 2 yrs, we been talking on and off for all this time.. sometimes not talking for 9 months.. and catching up.. I know he always liked me for all this time but, I was scared of him. We would flirt a lil but not that much. He was always a good friend to me, caring for me a lot. We recently talked and we have been together for about 2 months. Things were really good at first. Making plans. He was really happy that I finally realised that i love him and that i give him a chance. And as I know him more and more. I fall more and more in love with him. I really love him. We have been hanging together everyday all the time for about these 2 months. About 2 weeks ago.. a problem happened.. See.. we play this game online together, and at night we would be each in our house and play. My account got hacked. I sent a mail to the company and they banned my bf. They said they banned him because they say him log my account. But we log each other account sometimes. It's normal. He lost everything he was working on for 3 yrs. I said to him i would call and send email to unban him. He got pissed and said he wasnt sure about how he could trust me in that. Then, another problem but with his friends with this same game and he got more pissed. Everytime I would try to talk to him. He woudnt not answer. I told him thusday on MSN "Hey im gonna go see you next week" he didnt answer. He told me "I wont be home for the next 5 days, im going to Denver" and then he went offline. That same night, his friend talked to me on MSN. He said, I am worried for him. He is cutting everyone from his life slowly. He needs you more then anything else right now. I asked him, why do you say that.. is there something you know that i dont? he said, maybe... i dont want you to be worried.. but i got worried, i mean, I love my bf a lot. Then that friend asked me, Do you really love him? and i said.. yes! why? and he kept asking me these questions about our relation.. then, he said "i like you" and i told him, no i like Bryan.. And then he said its ok i was only testing you.. Now with a bf who don't wanna talk to me, with a friend of him who test me, I don't know what to do. I know that when Bryan, my bf, is mad or pissed. He needs his space. He become really angry with adrenaline really high and he leave. Let the adrenaline go down, then talk to me. But lately he would just leave and not come back. Go offline, not returning my calls. I don't know what to do. I am so scared. That guy waited for me two years. Now that he have me, he react that way. I don't know if he is scared.. I know he got many girlfriends before me. He told me, every girl that I had i would cheat on them cause i didnt like having them too close of me. I was protecting myself. You are the only one that I liked for real.

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i know.. he said he would wait an eternity if he had too.. but i dont wanna make him wait that long heh poor guy waited 2 yrs now.. i feel bad for that =/

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In a LDR-Online right now, Sometimes, I just feel like, what we have is the same things everyday.. i mean.. it is but.. How do you keep things alive? How do you add spice in your LDR? Right now i really feel that we talk everyday but we are like an old couple. Thanks for your advices.

Second post here (first was last night) I read a lot before posting, to know if someone went thru similar things as me. I just read "My bf wants to slow down, but I'm comfortable" I just think the same thing happened to me.. That guy and I connected a lot and we were building something, just... at a really really really slow beat.. I never said I love you to him, cause it's not part of our stuff, we care a lot for each other.. we know we have an awesome connection, we are friends building something... anyway, I am the kinda person who, always feel the need to say "you know i care for you" you know im here for you.. you know you can come to me if you want... thats my way to tell someone, hey... what we have is still there no matter what... i am just so scared I destroyed things with him, by telling things like, I will go see you in a year, I wish i could be there to take you to the movie... all stuff related to us being together... he never said anything like that to me, i did... To me, it seem real what I live, some people told me that, if he doesnt say he likes me, means he dont.. i am the kinda person that thinks that... slow relationship can be real... Anyone out there had the same thing as me? What would you recommand..?

Hello, Thanks a lot for your answers.. Well, first of all, i didnt expect these kind of answers.. I tought with all the things I said, it was a kewl cyber relation i was living.. i know he isnt ready. And I am not either anyway... We live our things on the internet day by day... i just wanted to... i dont know.. im kinda down right now.. when 2 person say to each other they are close and have something real... but, some ppl who are outside hear about it and tell you to completely drop it.. i dont know anymore..