Women: What are YOUR flirting techniques?

[steelwool]

I hear it all the time. "Guys are so blind." "Why hasn't he asked me out yet?" I'm just curious as what do women do to get that guy of interest to take notice? When you see a stranger that catches your fancy, what do you do to let him know "come talk to me"?

[renaissancewoman101]

If I see someone that catches my fancy, I sometimes will give him eye contact and smile nervously at him. Although, I have probably never attracted a guy that way, maybe because most people are put off by my height.

[steelwool]

If I see someone that catches my fancy, I sometimes will give him eye contact and smile nervously at him. Although, I have probably never attracted a guy that way, maybe because most people are put off by my height.

Your height? How tall are you?

[arco_GA]

shayda just reading your reply turned me on. lol. its obvious if a girl is interested she is going to let you know. you just gotta play it cool and innocent.

[Scout]

I have been known to walk up to someone and ask him for a light. With a lit cigarette in my hand.

[arco_GA]

a huge turnoff for me: women who smoke. just wanted to share that.

[Scout]

a huge turnoff for me: women who smoke. just wanted to share that.

 

LOL...yeah, best to take that approach only to a guy who is smoking himself.

[celticghirl]

i give side glances and smile. i play with my hair and if i am wearing a skirt then i cross my legs to show more skin. thats how i got my current boyfriend

[rose2summer]

I get really really talkative and giggle alot if I am interested in someone. I am normally rather reserved, so it definitely shows interest. Anyone know of any good books on flirting? I think that would help the OP too.

[arco_GA]

it drives me crazy when girls play with my head. some of them will walk by me and flick there hair in my face in a snobish way. im rather turned on by that btw. i also get alittle angry b/c its so disrespectful. some will cut me off as im walking and i have to stop or i might bump into them and apologize even tho its not my fault. when im in class some girls will start laughing when i answer questions. i get really good grades and so my teachers like me and i get away with pretty much anything i say. they sit in funny positions and talk outloud also. they usually do things in groups. my buddies and i just ignore them.

[arco_GA]

theres th is spanish lady who is nice to me when im mean and vise versa. whenever she makes fun of me i tell her i dont speak spanish. she gets really frustrated and ends up laughing at me.

[celticghirl]

it drives me crazy when girls play with my head. some of them will walk by me and flick there hair in my face in a snobish way. im rather turned on by that btw. i also get alittle angry b/c its so disrespectful. some will cut me off as im walking and i have to stop or i might bump into them and apologize even tho its not my fault. when im in class some girls will start laughing when i answer questions. i get really good grades and so my teachers like me and i get away with pretty much anything i say. they sit in funny positions and talk outloud also. they usually do things in groups. my buddies and i just ignore them.

 

my boyfriend said he went ga-ga when i walked past him and i brushed myself against him and my hair stroked his face as i did it lol.

[renaissancewoman101]

Steelwool, I am only 4'5" tall. A lot of people mistake me sometimes for a grade schooler.

[1899]

shayda just reading your reply turned me on. lol.

 

Yea, same here!

[Sheyda]

shayda just reading your reply turned me on. lol.

 

Yea, same here!

 

I guess my techniques must be pretty good to have such an effect when people are only reading about them.

[steelwool]

I guess my techniques must be pretty good to have such an effect when people are only reading about them.

 

I'll tell you one thing: ALOT of women don't show their interest as good as you do. That's extremely rare where I'm from. Usually they just walk into your view with no expression on the face hoping you automatically jump on them. Like just being seen is enough. By the way, is that a picture of you on side?

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

How about her drooping her hot breasts accross your back as your bent down? 'Ya think that might be a come-on? Or is it just possible she might have itchy nipples.

 

hmmmm yeah I haven't tried dropping my breasts accross a bent over stranger-guy as a way of letting him know I'm interested lately.....

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

Precisely as I thought. I mean most women pretty much know where their breasts are at all times, and just how much room they need? Is this true? I would think so myself. Especially in a work environment and considering I was about waist level looking for a file in a drawer.

Breasts simply don't go off on their own suddenly that low even if they are big. Here I was minding my own business, and suddenly get struck by --- Needless to say I was rather fond of it.

 

So, that being said...this was not an accident??

 

lol...well I mean were you two setting up a computer, were you in a cramped environment...that could be a mitigating factor I suppose...

 

Given enough room, I'm probably not going to rub my boobs up against some coworker-guy as a way of saying...did you get that report done, yet?

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

I think it's possible, flirting, if you can rule out any necessity...

 

I'm thinking of some events and clubs I go to....for instance theres this one club its big and after 11 it's alwasy super packed, like sardines. and you about have to rub up against guys to get by. Of course most of them are cute so it's all good

[Jane0815]

LOL...yeah, best to take that approach only to a guy who is smoking himself.

 

Heh.

 

A really intimidating hot-mama i-banker friend of mine in the city told me the flirt technique of touching the guy's hand as he's holding the light. But a huge %age of men simply hand her their lighter, even when they're giving all other signs of flirting with her. And if she asks them to light it for her, they look at her like she's disabled or something.

 

I smoke half a cigarette once a year, but always ask for a light. I'm turned off by regular smokers, but find myself equally turned off to men who reply WHAT?! Oh NO, I don't SMOKE!

 

Two take-aways here: 1) if she asks for a light, she might be flirting a bit! 2) one cigarette does not a chain-smoker make!

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

The other night down at that club I went outside to the smoking section to find one of my gfs. She was talking to this group of guys. One of the guys was picking on me because of my platform shoes, so I put him in a headlock. Well no joke that guy followed me all over that whole club all night. And that is a big crowded club it's hard to find someone if they're trying to lose you. I kept trying to ditch him or pass him off on my friend cuz he was hot and she liked him. But this guy would not be ditched.

 

So I'm thinking, headlock? Is that the way? From what Arco said guys like being disrespected. So confused...

[Ms. Babydoll]

Before I got with my bf I did many things to get his attention.

 

In Math I'd sit near him and glance at him occasionally until we made eye contact. I bit my bottom lip while talking to him. I brushed my hand through my hair all slowly and tilted my head back so my hair would tossle down infront of him.

 

Out of class I'd smile at him from a distance, showing him that he was the only one I was watching out of the entire crowd.

 

I guess it worked because the more I did these things the more I caught him staring and then we got together.