arco_GA Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 wow you never know a person until your face to face with them and actually spend time with them. i went out with this chic i met at work. really smart, an emory grad, had alot going for her. i spoke with her for a few hours over the phone nad i thought i had her pretty much figured out.(dont take me the wrong way when i say that.) we meet up and i didnt feel comfortable at all around her. i grabbed her arm a few times she smiled and i even kissed her. but it was like she didnt know how to respongd. she would just smile at me. she told me she never dated in highschool over the phone. i was surprised because this girl was NOT ugly. but i found out why 30 miniutes into the date. she had no personality. apparetly she spent too much times at home in her books, sheltered and had no social life whatsoever. it was the most awekward 3 hours i ever spent with anyone. just my luck! Link to comment
melrich Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 She sounds like she was probably very shy. It's up to you but you may find that after a couple of dates she might start opening up to you and you never know what you might get. I remember my best friend went on a first date and his description of it was very similar to yours. Anyway for some reason he persevered with another couple of dates and cut a long story short, they have been married for 15 years. Anyway, all I'm saying is that some people (especially shy people) can't really be summed up in one date. If there are enough things you like about her she may be worth another date or two. Link to comment
arco_GA Posted August 15, 2006 Author Share Posted August 15, 2006 i dont think i can fix this thing up tho. she is a picses ima gemini. it wasnt ment to be and plus i walked away as she was saying goodbye. Link to comment
melrich Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 Of course, it is up to you. Link to comment
arco_GA Posted August 15, 2006 Author Share Posted August 15, 2006 thanks for the feedback man. Link to comment
xprincessbugx Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 umm... im a pisces and my boyfriend is a gemini and we've been together 3 years. You may believe in that stuff and good for you but I wouldn't base my relationships off of it. Link to comment
arco_GA Posted August 15, 2006 Author Share Posted August 15, 2006 she asked me what my sign was and told me hers. i did the research. last year i dated a chick and when we broke up she said that our signs were incompatible. she was right. we didnt get along. Link to comment
Lady Bugg Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 Oh dear.............now it's come down to the stars. I'm doomed Waaaaaaaa!!! Link to comment
arco_GA Posted August 15, 2006 Author Share Posted August 15, 2006 im trying to set up a date later this week or early next week. this person is suppose to have a compatible sign. wish me luck. im waiting on her reply. Link to comment
arco_GA Posted August 15, 2006 Author Share Posted August 15, 2006 lady bugg are you looking for a man? why are you doomed? are you having trouble finding the right one????? ;-) Link to comment
Lady Bugg Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 Uhhhh I was being sarcastic. I have a man..but thanks for asking By the way I'm an Aquarius..for what it's worth. Link to comment
Tex1907 Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 Hey its obvious you don't like this girl. Since you are not willing to give her a chance I think you should back away and let someone else. You will find someone better for you in the long run... Link to comment
arco_GA Posted August 15, 2006 Author Share Posted August 15, 2006 i think so too. i was disappointed because i had my hopes up. its not often you meet a intelligent good looking girl. but man thats def not all there is too it. shes gotta have a good personality also. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 It doesn't sound like she has a bad personality. It actually sounds like you're being a bit unrealistic in your expectations. Some people take a while to warm up to new people, afterall. Doesn't mean she has no personality, for that matter she might have been the most interesting and exciting person you'll ever meet, but you'll never know because you expected too much too soon. Sometimes still waters run deep..... (And of course sometimes still waters are just still waters.....) Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 Signs don't mean squat. You'll run into plenty of people with whom you have a compatable sign and you won't get along with them well at all. You'll also meet people with whom you are well matched with but whom doesn't have a sign compatability. All that stuff is a load of dung. Don't limit your options to "signs", meet all of the girls you can and don't discriminate over something like this. Link to comment
xprincessbugx Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 I think the signs thing was just an excuse. He just obviously didn't like this girl and doesn't seem like he gave her much of a chance. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 I think the signs thing was just an excuse. He just obviously didn't like this girl and doesn't seem like he gave her much of a chance. Yes that's the impression I got too. OP, it's ok to not like someone. The best thing to do is not invest anymore time with them, and be as gracious about dumping them as possible. Link to comment
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