confused, how to get her back.

[hopelessxnow]

i've been going out with my ex for 6 months, we were deeply in love with eachother. After breaking up we didn't speak to eachother for 8 months. Recently we've gone back to speaking terms and she tends to leave many x's and she seems rather interested when we speak to eachother. Though im still not quite sure if she still likes me.

 

 

Is there a way to find out.. how can i get her back?

[bobo85]

sorry to say this man...

 

but people change.

 

NO you cant get her back. there is something called free will. Why would you want to manipulate her ex-gf to loving you again?

 

The only thing you can do is move on with your life. If your ex wanted to give it another try, she will let you know. But there is nothing you can do to make her change her mind. She is still being flirty w/ you because she still wants to know if you desire her. And when you respond to her, she will know that you still love her and she will know she can have you anytime. Don't let her get away with this. Stop letting her do this to you. No girl/woman is worth your sanity. Don't let her play anymore games with you.

 

If you have to, do NC.

[jojean]

I had to agree that you musn't read too much in it. If she wanted to be back with you, she would be clear about it and said it to you.

Just don't focus too much on it and try to live your life as it is now.