A question for the dames on here.

[Ross_K]

What do you prefer,

 

1. Bad boy's

 

2. Normal guys

 

or

 

3. Nice sweet guys?

 

If none of you prefer nice sweet guys, is it actually possible for any of you to be attracted to them?

 

Cheers.

[xblondyx]

A mixture of all 3!

Should be kind and caring, but also have a cheeky dare devil side but also normal, not some geeky person. Gosh i'm so shallow!

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

Well for a start, I'm bisexual with more of a leaning towards girls in general!

 

Ross, you cannot split males into three categories like that, it just isn't a valid question...people are much more diverse.

 

And, different women will be attracted to different guys with varying mixtures of qualities. My own boyfriend is certainly a polite, nice person, but he can be slightly rebellious and "bad"...and on occasion, extremely sweet. I wouldnt say hes a normal guy (what the heck is normal anyway), or especially "sweet", but he's far too considerate to be considered bad really..I know I've rambled, I've tried to get the point accross though.

[dopexile]

Nice guys always finish last... sad to say but true. Nice guys let people walk over them and it totally turns off women.

[Momene]

I think a bloke has to be just bad enough.

[Ross_K]

Well for a start, I'm bisexual with more of a leaning towards girls in general!

 

Ross, you cannot split males into three categories like that, it just isn't a valid question...people are much more diverse.

 

And, different women will be attracted to different guys with varying mixtures of qualities. My own boyfriend is certainly a polite, nice person, but he can be slightly rebellious and "bad"...and on occasion, extremely sweet. I wouldnt say hes a normal guy (what the heck is normal anyway), or especially "sweet", but he's far too considerate to be considered bad really..I know I've rambled, I've tried to get the point accross though.

 

I'm talkng stereotypicaly though. For example my preference in women are ones who're sweet genuine and nice.

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

OK, well stereotypes arn't a currency I deal in.

[Spawn]

ok there are all kind of guys out there,it doesn't feel right saying nice guys feel last or there are bad guys out there who get all the girls.

 

hmm, love them the way they are. Period.

[Batya33]

I want a man who is confident and assertive without being arrogant or controlling. If he is also nice/sweet that is great but I do not find doormats "nice" - I actually find them insincere and often angry people (i.e. they get to feel resentful that they give so much to others and somehow are taken advantage of). I am attracted to 'bad boys" but it is fleeting and without substance.

[Ross_K]

I'm not saying I'm one, but are there any women on here who can still be attracted to doormats?

[Batya33]

Think of it this way - of course there are people who are attracted to doormats - they have a need to be controlling - to have things their way at all times - and the trade off - a passive partner - is worth it to them. The problem is that doormats can gain confidence and then the balance of power will be disrupted.

 

For me, I can't even be close platonic friends with a doormat, much less a romantic partner.