fishrrshortae Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 My guy friend just told me that he got a girl's number less than a week ago, and he is thinking about calling her soon.... but he only wants to be friends with her. HUH?! Why would a guy go about getting a girl's number if he wasn't interested in dating her?? WHY ARE MEN SO CONFUSING?!?!? Link to comment
bobo85 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 perhaps he just wants to get to know her before he really starts to date her. I love the idea of becoming friends first before starting a relationship. Maybe he just doesnt want a relationship right now and just wants to have fun. Maybe he just wants the relationship to be purely physical with no emotional attatchments. Link to comment
Dako Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 I learn so much here. I never knew exchanging phone numbers implied a romantic interest. Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 *sigh* confusing. I know. and then there's the guys that ask for a girl's number, and then never call. and he's not interested in dating her? strange. Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 I learn so much here. I never knew exchanging phone numbers implied a romantic interest. ummmm......YEAH!!!!!:splat: Link to comment
fishrrshortae Posted April 17, 2006 Author Share Posted April 17, 2006 I learn so much here. I never knew exchanging phone numbers implied a romantic interest. As Annie says, Ummm... YEAH!!!!!!! Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 My guy friend just told me that he got a girl's number less than a week ago, and he is thinking about calling her soon.... but he only wants to be friends with her. HUH?! Why would a guy go about getting a girl's number if he wasn't interested in dating her?? WHY ARE MEN SO CONFUSING?!?!? Maybe she has cute friends. Maybe he's lying and he really does like her but is too wimpy to actually make the move. Link to comment
Dako Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 I guess I'm from Mars. I've had a couple of women give me their phone numbers, but I've never called them. I assumed it was just in case I wanted to chat, but I'm not a phone person. There's a chance I'd ask them out for coffee if I was in the area, but that hasn't happened. Does this make me a jerk? Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 A guy online recently asked me for my phone number or IM. I told him I don't chat online and I'm not much of a phone talker either. I told him I don't really talk on the phone unless it is to make plans. I was interested in him, but he never called me Oh well.... Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 If I may suggest a book that has helped me to try and understand men. "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt. It brutally honest and painfully enlighting. Link to comment
fishrrshortae Posted April 18, 2006 Author Share Posted April 18, 2006 To counter back, there is another book called .. not sure. something along the lines of "well be honest, you didnt like him that much either." dako - it never occurred to me that some men didnt know that when they get a girl's #, it's usually cuz she's interested.... Link to comment
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