SadHatter Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 My ex-gf dumped me at Xmas and I've posted quite a bit on this forum about the various episodes since. She now has a new bf. She's been ringing and texting me for ages, I haven't shown any interest at all, which seems to have made her text/call me more. Last night, she called my room phone and I answered. I said "Please don't call me anymore, I am NOT interested"....she said, "PLEASE I need to talk to you quickly." I said, "You've got five minutes...." She starts saying she misses me etc. etc. I said, "Look what are you after? You have a bf, you wanna dump him and get back with me or something?" - I just thought I can't be bothered with playing stupid games, just ask her outright - so she said, "You're not interested are you, so we can't". I thought, right, let's play a game here and prove this once and for all. I KNEW she just wanted attention from me and to know she could still have me, and as soon as I showed I care, she wouldn't care anymore. So I said, "OK then...I am interested. Shall we get back together?" (very tongue-in-cheek). She replied, "Sorry, I have a boyfriend, I am not interested at the moment, sorry. I don't think we should talk anymore." I let out a huge laugh and said, "You do realise I just did all of that to prove a point? I am NOBODY's safety net and I am NOT there to give you attention and an ego boost." and I hung up. Haven't heard from her since. I have to say guys, I think my ex-gf takes the biscuit....I think I quite possibly have THE biggest moron of an ex-gf of anyone on here! LOL Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 I don't think you should give her the 5 minutes next time....She seems to just call to ruffle your feathers.... BellaDonna Link to comment
NJRon Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 That's pretty funny. I like how she pulled a 180... why do people go through so much work to do something like that? Link to comment
PocoDiablo Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 You just proved one of my points for attracting women ... don't act interested. If you do, they run. It's called "challenge." Bravo! Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 its true, its true. We like a challenge. Link to comment
lgirl Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 speak for yourself ta ree saw! lol people who have to put on an act, pretend they don't care - as advised by poco diablo - just come off as sad losers. life is too short to play games Link to comment
SadHatter Posted April 5, 2006 Author Share Posted April 5, 2006 Exactly, I agree, playing games is pointless. There's nothing wrong with playing hard to get for a bit, but when you get to the point where your ex-gf has been playing nothing but games for three months, you just can't be bothered anymore... I proved my point I think - and the good thing is, at last, I've completely and utterly realised she is an absolute idiot Link to comment
hoping Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 hahahaha sadhatter dude i am happy for ya for being able to say that! Link to comment
SadHatter Posted April 5, 2006 Author Share Posted April 5, 2006 Ron - the reason some people go through all that is because they are extremely insecure - they HAVE to hear that someone wants them. It's their problem - it's her's - not mine - I am not the insesure one and in the future when I am happy and settled with someone new, she'll be playing these pointless games with some other sucker Link to comment
DN Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 I'll lay odds that she calls again within a week. Link to comment
SilverManic Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 Thats aweful! I can't believe that someone would be that much of a mind monkey.. in that meaning that she was trying to mess with your head. Thats just nasty as well as moronic.. Good one for realizing what your not missing, ~S. Link to comment
PocoDiablo Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 speak for yourself ta ree saw! lol people who have to put on an act, pretend they don't care - as advised by poco diablo - just come off as sad losers. life is too short to play games I never said to "not care." I said "be a challenge." That means "Don't be boring or overly-serious." Link to comment
SilenThunder Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 My girlfriend did this to me as well... It came to a point where I told her she doesn't talk to my friends, she doesn't talk to my family and she definitely will never talk to me again... If she continues to contact me I will block her, email, phone number, cell number ect. She made 2 attempts after that, I just repeated myself and hung up... Then she finally got the point, I haven't heard from her since... Seen her a few times but could have cared less... Link to comment
SadHatter Posted April 5, 2006 Author Share Posted April 5, 2006 Glad everyone liked the story anyway, at least I cheered a few of you up! What's funny is, for about a week or so, I was curious...why is she ringing me etc. Now I just think who the hell cares, what a completely stupid, immature, waste of space little girl! Link to comment
shamus Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 my ex did the same thing to me 2 weeks ago-in the thread "she's torturing me" your post made me realize my ex is foolish as well. why go through the trouble if you arent interested? simple, its being a safety net, being put on the back burner. we deserve so much better than what they can give. those calls and texts, garbage bravo to you sir...i wont fall into my exs trap again. let the next guy deal with her mood swings. its all or nothing with me, and her actions proved to me its nothing, yet her words were the opposite. keep strong! Link to comment
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