Slick Posted March 18, 2006 Share Posted March 18, 2006 I didn't exactly tell him my name, age, where I was from, or what I looked like! Was I wrong not too, I didn't know from the start if he was going to be a creep so I was protecting myself, but then after I found out he wasn't, I fell in love with him and he did aswell, then I didn't have the heart to tell him. He was such a wonderful person, totally what I was looking for in a guy, and he told me I was what he has waited all these years for to come along ( my heart sank) how was I going to break it to him, after a few months I did, at first the news didn't go over well and I totally understood if he was mad, we have just started to talk again and he forgave me but deep down I feel he shouldn't at all, so I guess i'm the lucky one. what should I say to him? I was the one that broke his heart from the begaining, I don't want to lose him again and is it right to still be in love with him?? Link to comment
jensxcom Posted March 18, 2006 Share Posted March 18, 2006 I dont understand, you didnt tell him what you looked like? Did you lie about that? Link to comment
Slick Posted March 18, 2006 Author Share Posted March 18, 2006 Yes, I gave him a random picture that wasn't me Slick Link to comment
jensxcom Posted March 18, 2006 Share Posted March 18, 2006 thats tough then, does he like how you really look? Link to comment
Tigris Posted March 18, 2006 Share Posted March 18, 2006 It is good that you protected yourself in the beginning however you shouldn't have deceived him with the photo. The best thing to do is to say that you're not comfortable with showing people your photo and giving them personal details until you know them better, that way you are telling them the truth. I hope everything works out fine for you. Good luck Link to comment
DN Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 I guess the hard question is: was the random photo of someone else better looking than you? If not then you can claim that you just wanted to maintain your anonymity. But if there is marked difference then he might think that you were deliberately deceiving him until a relationship is established. Then he is pout in the position of having to say that he doesn't care about the physical attractiveness issue because if he does care he appears to be shallow. Link to comment
Jonquil Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 You've fallen in love with someone online who's telling you you're what he's been waiting for all these years?. I wouldn't be so concerned about you deceiving him... I think it'll turn out he's deceiving you. Link to comment
DN Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 You've fallen in love with someone online who's telling you you're what he's been waiting for all these years?. I wouldn't be so concerned about you deceiving him... I think it'll turn out he's deceiving you. Good point - how old is this guy? Link to comment
Slick Posted March 19, 2006 Author Share Posted March 19, 2006 Jonquil: why do you think he's deceiving me??? Slick Link to comment
Slick Posted March 23, 2006 Author Share Posted March 23, 2006 NO........I met him on the net that would be the point of the post here on "Cyber Relationships" But if you mean do I know what he looks like, yes I have see him in that aspect on cam Slick Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Id be careful, i think alot of people find it easy to know how old someone is off the net by there attitude, typing etc. He, im assuming must be some bit older than your age of 17? I'd be very careful if i were you Link to comment
Slick Posted March 23, 2006 Author Share Posted March 23, 2006 Yep by one year he is, but i've talked to his mom and brother a few times, there just as nice and either there lieing too then what you think? Slick Link to comment
Kitz Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 How can you FALL IN LOVE with someone over the internet?! Thats just lame. Really. Sorry. But if you never meet eachother in real life, then.. what the hell, how can you really love him? Do you even know what his voice sounds like? Link to comment
Slick Posted March 23, 2006 Author Share Posted March 23, 2006 Sure do, i've heard it many times Slick Link to comment
musicguy Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Trust is a very important thing in a relationship either online or offline and if you lied to him from the start, it may be hard for him to believe you and if he's lying to you, then there isn't really a relationship to begin with Link to comment
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