my bf likes to make me mad

[tasiattasia]

my bf thinks it's funny when i'm mad and tries to do things to get me mad. he will pic on me about the way i look and the way i cook.

[becallamjr]

Everyone has their own sick little pleasures

[tasiattasia]

ok, i guess i'm wondering if this is some form of flirting or a way to get my attention? or a form of emotional abuse. sometimes it's funny but most of the time it isn't.

[Mun]

tell him you won't cook for him any longer and you won't date him anymore if he keeps it up... see if he finds that funny.

[becallamjr]

Maybe he is going for that makeup/angry sex thing. Just joking, but still a thought. He may just be flirting, but if it really bothers you, just be honest with him and if he truly does love you then he will stop.

[Lonelyinasmalltown]

I agree with Mun, if it upsets you, then you definitely need to put your foot down, or else it will only get worse. If he thinks you think it's cute, it's not going to stop.

[annie24]

yeah, who knows how far he will go to make you mad.

 

What an immature jerk!

 

tell him to knock it off, or else you're going to dump him and find a new guy who doesn't pick at you all the time.

[princessdi75]

My boyfriend can be the same way sometimes, I get mad and then he tells me I'm too sensitive...he can be a jerk, just for his own amusement, but I still love him...he always makes it up by complimenting me like crazy, lol.

[Scout]

Before I make an opinion here, it would help to know specifically what comments he has made that have upset you. It could be a case of you being overly sensitive, or it could be a case of yes, he's an insensitive jerk. Can't tell at this point.

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

Tell him when its not funny..Just go *not funny* and give him NO attention..its like parenting a toddler, all he wants is attention, deny him it and he should change...but if not, dont put up with it, dump him!

[Bethany]

Next time he does this, put on your sexiest dress and tell him that you're going out clubbing with your mates, then tell him to cook his own dinner as you will be home late. He should get the message before you even go thru the door.