Kissing someone new for the first time

[baldo]

Do you think it should be slow, flirtatious, sensual kissing, or should you use the tongue action?

 

This is something I've never really understood

[darkblue]

For the first time - Slow and meaningful.

[traz]

Its situational for me. If its someone you're dating, or someone you really like...then slow and meaningful. If its someone from a club or a party or that kind of thing, then tongue action works

[renaissancewoman101]

You can always do both, slow and meaningful with some tongue action. But then, who am I to say, it's been quite awhile since I've kissed someone. Either way, most people are fine with anything and sometimes awkwardness adds to the uniqueness of the situation at hand.

[ShySoul]

Using your toungue is more intimate. You are placing a part of you inside of the other person. Unless this is someone that you know extremely well, I don't think it is something you should be doing. And most people will be weirded out by toungue on a first kiss.

 

Go naturally. Kisses should not be planned, they should happen and you should fully enjoy the moment. I think that you would be more naturally inclined to be soft and gentle. Besides, the gentle kind are the best kind.

[traz]

Using your toungue is more intimate. You are placing a part of you inside of the other person. Unless this is someone that you know extremely well, I don't think it is something you should be doing. And most people will be weirded out by toungue on a first kiss.

 

Just thought I'd note that I've found the opposite to be true for me

[iLoVeCoNnie]

what ever is right for the moment!

 

love melissa

 

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[Jhodas]

It depends on them I feel. The mechanics of kissing work because two people are playing off each other. Just depends what kind of vibe you get when your lips first touch. Let the kiss grow if it wants to.

[lizylyz]

You can start out slow and then put some tongue into it.

 

or you can stop thinking about it and stressing and wait till you're there. You'll know what to do.

 

If all else fails, follow his lead.