Diva_Lee Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 Have any of you cried during sex? Not because of pain or anything. On Valentine's Day my b/f and I had sex but the feeling was so different and i started to cry. Has this happened 2 anyone else and y do u think it happened? Link to comment
Dannysgirl Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 Yes that has happened to me and it was basically because I knew I didn't want to be with that person anymore, and the whole thing felt so wrong. What do you think led to your crying? Link to comment
theantibarbie23 Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 Did this happen after/during orgasm? I've read that some women cry after/during orgasm because orgasms can cause a flood of emotion. Link to comment
Diva_Lee Posted February 17, 2006 Author Share Posted February 17, 2006 i think it happened to me becuase i know that i truly do love this person. but we have been going through some things lately and dont wanna loose him. i think it was also emotional. Link to comment
maroB Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 why was the feeling different? was it cause you loved him sooooo much and you were so happy to have him in your life? or was it cause you knew it was wrong, as stated in a comment before mine? on a guys point of view, i would feel awful if a female started to tear/cry during or after sex. Link to comment
maroB Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 i think it happened to me becuase i know that i truly do love this person. but we have been going through some things lately and dont wanna loose him. i think it was also emotional. first of all, awwwww that is so cute. i wish you lots of luck, to the both of you. second, i am curious as to how your partner reacted? Link to comment
Diva_Lee Posted February 17, 2006 Author Share Posted February 17, 2006 well he just stopped and asked if i was ok. then stopped again and said what u cant handle my big.......LOL! Link to comment
Diva_Lee Posted February 17, 2006 Author Share Posted February 17, 2006 and i think the feeling was different because i know i love him and really dont want to loose him. cuz we have been through alot since new years. Link to comment
Confessoress Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 I have. I cried because at that moment I knew how much I loved him and it was killing me not knowing whether he loved me back. I still don't Link to comment
Diva_Lee Posted February 17, 2006 Author Share Posted February 17, 2006 girl i honestly feel where you are coming from on that one. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 What makes you feel like you might lose him? Are things going well in your relationship? Link to comment
Diva_Lee Posted February 18, 2006 Author Share Posted February 18, 2006 well we got in a pretty tough argument a few weeks ago and did the whole no contact thing. right now its pretty rocky. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 The crying was because of emotion. Sex is an emotional experience anyway, combine that with it being with someone you love so much, and all the mixed feelings from the rough stretch you have had, and it was so overwhelming that you couldn't help but cry. Take time to work through the issues that caused this rocky patch. Work together and make sure you each know that you love each other. You can get through this and sty together. And though many guys would probably get on my case for saying this, you girls aren't alone in feeling emotional doing intimate moments. I've never had sex yet, but I can imagine when I finally do with the right person, that I may just be emotional enough to cry myself. Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Yeah i cried during sex once, because i found out my boyfriend was going away for 3 months, it was probably because you did feel all lovey dovey lol and when your having sex you completely relax and let it go Link to comment
Dregnought Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 And though many guys would probably get on my case for saying this, you girls aren't alone in feeling emotional doing intimate moments. I've never had sex yet, but I can imagine when I finally do with the right person, that I may just be emotional enough to cry myself.Every time me and MG have sex, i get emotional with love and other stuff inside, but i dont ever imagine i would cry about it. Link to comment
ginger25 Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 I have been very close to crying during sex, when I realised I was falling really badly for someone and I hadn't felt that way in an awfully long time Link to comment
orgasmictofu Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 I've cried right after sex. It was the day after my grandpa died. I really didn't want to have sex, but my jerk ex felt it was my duty to please him. He apologized, then we had sex again and I cried some more. God I hate that guy. Link to comment
Dregnought Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Thats just horrible! I am ever so sorry for you. God I hate that guy.And i dont blame you one bit. Im glad your no longer with him. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 orgasmictofu, That was horrible of him. I'm sorry you went through that. You have every right to hate him. And I'm also glad you are no longer with him. There are better guys out there. Link to comment
orgasmictofu Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 orgasmictofu, That was horrible of him. I'm sorry you went through that. You have every right to hate him. And I'm also glad you are no longer with him. There are better guys out there. Thanks guys, I appreciate the sympathy. There are a whole plethora of reasons why I hate him now, the one I mentioned is unfortuantely minor. I didn't realize until after I broke up with him just over a year ago that he was emotionally abusive. I never looked back. But that's a whole other can of worms. And I did find someone else. He is absolutely terrific. The best guy a gal could ever ask for. *end hijack* Link to comment
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