Casket Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 hi my ex gf just messaged me on an IM client and my heart fell to the floor. she asked if she could ask a question and it fell even further. luckily it was only a computer question. then she asked me for a big favor... i said yes. she wants me to do something for her (dont have to be face to face with her) with computers (im in college for them). i said yes. i feel like the healing process has been set back like 2 months. not only did i talk to her bout 10 mins ago, but i have to talk to her in a couple of days. i didnt know where to come. i hate love Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 i feel like the healing process has been set back like 2 months. not only did i talk to her bout 10 mins ago, but i have to talk to her in a couple of days. You don't have to do this for her. If it were me in your place, I'd tell her I couldn't help her...sorry... You're setting yourself up to be used if you keep doing little things for her while you are still heartbroken. Heal up first, then fix her computer until the cows come home... Link to comment
PassionatePices Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 You have any friends that could take your place? If not DON'T GO! " my ex gf just messaged me on an IM client and my heart fell to the floor. she asked if she could ask a question and it fell even further. luckily it was only a computer question. then she asked me for a big favor... i said yes. she wants me to do something for her (dont have to be face to face with her) with computers (im in college for them). i said yes. i feel like the healing process has been set back like 2 months. not only did i talk to her bout 10 mins ago, but i have to talk to her in a couple of days." E-mail her telling you have other obligations. Sorry , can't get out of it! Ignore your messages from now on. Don't feel bad.Think of you! Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 then she asked me for a big favor... i said yes. Good iead about sending a friend... And remember this, you can't change her feelings by doing things like this for her! I learned that one the hard way... Link to comment
Casket Posted February 9, 2006 Author Share Posted February 9, 2006 No you see i could do it from my computers, i dont physically need to go anywhere. I will just have to talk to her on the computer, not face to face. I know thats not much to some of you, but... oh i dunno. who cares Link to comment
dishrag Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 I know how you feel. My ex called me twice and sent me an email asking to pick stuff up to move more stuff out of our house. Just the phone calls make me sick to the stomach and I let those go to voicemail. Really wrecks your progress. Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 No you see i could do it from my computers, i dont physically need to go anywhere. I will just have to talk to her on the computer, not face to face. I know thats not much to some of you, but... oh i dunno. who cares Well then I'd say just do it, and don't talk to her anymore until you are over her... Link to comment
Casket Posted February 10, 2006 Author Share Posted February 10, 2006 I will do that then. Then i will get her out of my life!!!!!!! Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 I will do that then. Then i will get her out of my life!!!!!!! Good job my man, way to be... Link to comment
gratefulpain Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 I wouldnt go..... but i wouldn't be mean.... let me get tnhis mstraight break your heart tear it to pieces ... and um by the way can you set up my DSL? do what you want but you will be re-introduced to MR. heartache and he'll punch you in the stomach.... Link to comment
coollady1957 Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 I agree with the other posts here. I think you should just keep no contact going, dont answer any other IM's from her. I would not do the computer favor for her. If you want to heal and get past this, the computer talks are not good either. COmputer chatting about what ever you are doing for her, is still having contact. If you allow her to, she is most likely going to keep messaging you and taking advantage of you. Move on for your sake and let her find some one else to do favors for her. Link to comment
PassionatePices Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 Hi Casket How are you? Just wanna throw a "Hello" your way. Link to comment
Diggitydave Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 The little favors are always more than that to the person who is hurting more. Remember, it is usually no sweat off their back. Link to comment
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