different things to do

[dimp62003]

k my b/f and me have had an awsome sex life so far but i just want to make sure that it doesn't "die out" like how it did with my ex....so if anybody has any little fun things to do that they have done please share

thanx

[Boricua7]

Two words: Karma Sutra. I got my boyfriend a book for Christmas and we have yet to try all of the possible positions. Have fun and experiment. Try new positions, try new places, try using new things to stimulate eachother (talking dirty to eachother, whipped cream or chocolate syrup, lotions, toys, watching porns together...etc). Your options are endless so exhaust as many as the two of you are comfortable with!

[annie24]

Lou Paget has some great books for women on technique. One of them is "How to be a great lover." Her books are great!!!

[Cloud802]

This is so cool, I love posts like this. I know this awesome site that has all these techniques, tips, and toys that you can get. Here's the address:

 

 

Have fun, and don't ask me how I found it, I was just surfing one day and it came out of the blue. It's a very cool site and I can't wait till I get married to try out all that stuff.

 

 

[Day_Walker]

Depending on what you are into I would say go to a sex shop and find some things that you are into and want to try.

[Starry_Eyed]

I'm with Day Walker. Just walk around one of those adult stores and find things you might like to try.

[ShySoul]

Depending on your level of comfort with it, porn can have rather... innovative ideas. Of course, much of it you may find repulsive as well.

 

Fantasies and role play provide endless opportunites for something new. You can be anyone and play out any situation your mind can conceive.

 

Heat things up before you ever get to the bedroom. Sex is more then the act itself. Do cute or romantic things for each other. Go up to the person and just give them a kiss. Whisper in there ear as you are walking or driving. If the person knows you want them, it increases the anticipation for later and you are roaring to go when the time finally comes.

 

Massages, give each other sensual bubble baths.... possibilities are endless.

 

Also focus on what turns each other on. If you try something that the other person really enjoys, don't hesitate to do it again.