dimp62003

k my b/f and me have had an awsome sex life so far but i just want to make sure that it doesn't "die out" like how it did with my ex....so if anybody has any little fun things to do that they have done please share thanx

my "friend" and me had sex and we have never used condoms but we have only had sex a few times and everytime he always pulls out. but this time he didn't pull out in time and got like half of it in me. so we are kind of freaking out so i was just wondering how long do you wait till you should take a pregnancy test?

ok so my aunt dies yesterday and my b/f now couldn't even tell me he was sorry or anything like that cuz he was more worried about getting some and he was mad at me b/c i didnt give it to him....and later lastnight i went and seen my friend and i told him that she died and the first thing he did was hug me and tell me he was sorry and told me that he loved him and everything was going to be ok. well my b/f got all mad b/c i got all mad and i shouldnt have and it just really makes me mad that hes more worried about himself than me...and thats the way he always his. and my friend isn't like that all he wants to be a part of my life and my b/f just doesn't act like that anymore

k so im going out with this guy, have been for over 2 years. well my ex b/f and me have always talked and since this past summer we have became very very close we talk at least once a week for at least 2 hours at a time. every once in awhile we hang out and all that. well we have done stuff since we have got closer and the other day he came over and we hung out for like all day and we did stuff and he told me that he wants to be with me, but he has always said this, and that he wants to have a family with me. and like if he tells me that hes going to call me or whatever he does...unlike my b/f now. but we were talking last night and i asked him why he wants to be with me and he said that he has always liked me and has really started liking me more since we have got closer and he loves my personality and the way i am around him and the way i make him smile and laugh. and that he wishes that we never would have broken up and if he ever got a second chance with me he would take it in a heart beat! so what i want to know is if he really likes me or if he just wants to be "friends"

i just turned 18 and i want to have a baby....yes i realize that im very young but im ready to get on with my life and all that. see the thing is is that my b/f doesnt want kids...well at least not right now, not for like 20 years. idk i just need an outlook from somebody

this guy who i have been friends with for like over 4 years...well we went out when we first met but we broke up, we didnt go out for very long and i really dont know why we broke up ...but anyway we have always kept in touch and we hang out from time to time and here lately like the past couple of months we have been talking alot and hanging out and everything and like before he would say he was going to call me and then he never would and now when he says it he does it...but he sits there and tells me that he wasnt to be with me and all this but idk if hes for real cuz hes a player like big time and i dont want to get hurt but he is so sweet and i think i love him. but idk what to think or what to do

k but his things is that i dont do nothing romantic for him

and sometimes i feel like all he wants me for is to be is sex toy like it seems like if he dont get it once a day its a bad thing

k my b/f and me have been going out for 2 yrs and 4 months. well he says that i never do anything for him like romantic wise but it took him 2 years to light a candle for me and he didnt even get my flowers for my b-day or for v-day or for our 2 yr i mean how hard is it to go 5 blocks from ur house and buy flowers? but yet he does so much for me and i never do anything for him...but i cook for him i clean for him i wash his close i've washed his dishes i've cleaned his whole room when it looked like world war 3 went thru it...i have been more of a mother to him in these past 2 years than his own mother has ever been in his whole life. but yet i dont do nothing for him i dont understand...i mean what am i supposed to do for him that im not doing?

k so there is this guy who i have been friends with for some time and for about 2 years were friends and "friends" but now he wants to be with me. like he makes sure that he talks to me every day and hes so sweet and just everything but i dont know if hes for real. but like i asked him why, why now he wants this and not before and he just said that things change. so idk please help

i really dont remember i mean that was 4 years ago i think that i broke up with him b/c i didnt want to be with somebody but we only went out for like 2 weeks

k me and my ex have been best friends for like 4 years and we went out when we first met. but i'm starting to like him again and hes liking me too and this is really hard b/c i have a b/f and we have been going out for 2 years but hes starting to treat me like crap and controls me and im just sick of it. but i love him and i dont know what i would do without him. but on the other hand i really really like me ex like a lot and right now at this point in time i want to be with him just cuz he makes me feel good about myself and tells me things that my b/f doesnt tell me, like that i look good. when i get around him and cant help to smile, cuz like last night my b/f was mad b/c i was hanging out with a girlfriend and was throughing a fit about it and i was so mad at him but then i got around me ex and all i could do was smile b/c he makes me feel good..... i just dont know what to do

k heres the deal...i have this guy friend who i have been friends with for 4 years now and he's the greatest. I've been here for him when hes had problems with girls and he's been here for me when i've have problems with guys. but heres the thing we both like each other and i really dont know what to do. cuz see when we first meet we went out for like 2 weeks but i dont know what really happened. but the other night we got on the subject of us and i asked him if he likes me as a friend or if he likes me as more than a friend like a girlfriend and he said "as a girlfriend because i really care about you and i really like you and i think that we would be great together" so i dont know im just really confused cuz like hes told me before that he loves me and i kinda got freaked out but after a while i thought about it and i realized that i love him too. but the only thing that sux is that i have a b/f and he has a g/f. so i dont know what to do

k my b/f sat here the other night saying that i was so controlling and he never gets to go out and do anything. BUT i see him till about 11 at night and i come home and go to bed, i dont stay up talking to people or go hang out with other people. but yet at the same time after i go home i have no idea what hes doing who hes with or where hes at cuz he normally doesn't go to bed till about 6 in the morning. so it really made me mad that he said that i was controlling and that he never gets to do anything b/c im the one in our relationship who doesnt get to do anything. the last time that i went out, me and a girlfriend went out for dinner, and this was around v-day so like 6 or 7 months ago. well i just got really upset on wednesday b/c he was being a jerk so i just said fine im going to go out and have fun, so i did. yesterday i went and hung out with my girlfriend. well i asked my b/f to call me when he got up and he just said yeah w/e well my firend drove past his house around like 6 and said that one of his friends was there so that made me even more upset b/c he didnt have time to call his g/f but yet he had time to hang out with friends. well earlyer yesterday i tried calling him mom to get ahold of him to tell him what i was up to and all that and she didnt answer. so my firned and me had to leave town right away and i forgot my phone at her house and he text me and told me that he kinda forgot to call me and then he called me like 15 times and left like 11 messages cuz he was all mad that i didnt answer. and the whole time that i was listening to him yelling i was just thinking well hey he does that stuff to me and im just supposed to be ok with and not think nothing of it and i do so i really didnt see it as a big deal. but i dont know what im trying to ask i just dont understand why hes throughing such a fit or how he thinks that im controlling....idk maybe im wrong let me know thanx

my b/f is sitting here telling me that i'm controlling him when i didnt even say anything to him...but yet i dont control him i just ask where hes going what hes doing and who hes with b/c he has lied to me...but he sits here and i cant even talk to a best guy friend that i have for a year before i even knew my b/f. i just dont understand it...cuz its supposed to be oh so ok for him to go to parties and talk to other girls but yet i cant even go out to dinner with my girlfriend without getting yelled at. i just dont understand and why do guys sit there and say one day oh i love you so much your the bestest thing to me blah blah blah...but then 2 days later threaten to break up with you just cuz you do something wrong.....PLEASE EXPLAIN IT

my b/f and i were driving around last night and this chick calls him and shes asking him who was that girl that was on your phone earlyer and hes like does it matter and she got all mad and kept on calling so i answerd it and she like starts yelling at me b/c im on my b/fs phone and it went on for like hours. but the thing that is making me so mad is that my b/f thinks that its ok for him to do something but its not ok for me. like it should be ok that he talks to this girl just b/c its his friends friend and they talk to her at night just for something to do. but yet i cant even talk to my bestest guy friend that i have known way longer than my b/f, b/c if i do talk to him then it gets back to my b/f that i was cheating on him and hanging out with this guy and just a bunch of crap...i just dont understand what the deal is and just need a lil advice as to what to do

he told me that he never said anything b/c the girls didn't want anybody to know b/c well the one girl was going out with his best friend at the time. but i'm just freaked out b/c i thought that he had always told me everything and never lied or left anything out. i understand where everybody is coming from about how i dont need to know everything cuz its in the past...but if he would have slept with like my sister or something i would never go for him. i just personaly like to know things like this always have...or what if somebody slept with somebody that you know has an std...you wouldn't sleep with them if you know that right...just things like this is nice to know you know

it's not that i'm mad at him for what he did. i still love him and i still would have gone out with him if he would have told me. its just i much rather would hear something from him, as he would from me, and not from somebody else. and the thing that makes me mad is that he lied striaght to my face for 2 years and it makes me think about things that have happened in the past....like he lied to me and went out to my cuz's house, who doesn't like me and she likes him and she would or did try stuff with him. and there has just been comments that he has made about that night that have just got me thinking now. b/c he said that the only reason that them 2 girls and him had a 3some was b/c they were drunk...well when he went out to my cuz's house she had a friend out there who likes him too and they all were drunk...so im just questioning everything i guess

My b/f and I have been going out for a lil over 2 years now, and we want to be together for the rest of our lives. Well one very important thing to me is knowing what my b/f has done in the past, and in the case of me wanting to spend the rest of my life with him. Well he never and still doesn't see why I have to know what all he has done with other girls and who the girls are. But in my eyes knowing this is a big part in a relationship. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know....Am I? But anyway tonight I was just thinking about things and something made me start asking him questions about the past and who he's been with. Well he told me that this one girl they never did anything that it was all just teasing and this other girl all they ever did was she gave him head. Well I was just making sure that he didn't do anything else with either of them and that he has only been with 2 girls. Well we get to talking and he has had sex with the other 2 girls (that he never did anything with) and also had a 3some with them. And I'm just, I don't know heartbroken cuz I Have told him EVERYTHING, everything from who I just messed around with or who i had teases with who i had sex with and who raped me and it is just really upsetting me b/c he has always told me the truth about everything and i just dont know what to do or say to him i'm just really down and i need some advise so please please help me cuz i feel so weird around him or when i talk to him on the phone please help me

ok so my b/f and me will be going out for 2 years in June...and for V-Day last year he got me a promise ring. Well I'm thinking about getting him a promise ring for our 2 year. but i was just wondering if that is weird or not. cuz my cuz's g/f got him one a while ago for like x-mas or something. just wondering

k so my b/f and me have been going out for almost 2 years and i feel like we aren't as close as we used to be, cuz he's changed a lot and not in a good way. But anymore I just feel like I'm getting pushed off all the time, like that his friends and other things need to come before me. But he says that that isn't so because he puts me first. He just confuses me anymore cuz I really don't know what he really wants. Since about Nov. he has said stuff about breakin up and he's done it and in like 3 weeks we "broke up" prolly 3 times...but then we always just say that we don't want it but I'm getting sick of playin games. I'm just gettin sick of getting crapped on all the time. and he does this thing that it's ok for him to do something but it's not for me...like it's ok for him to talk to other girls, that yeah may be friends with him or whatever, but when i talk to other guys that I'm friends with it's not right at all and i shouldnt do that. so yesterday my mom and me went into town and i seen my best guy friend drive by so i called him and he came and talked to me and after he left my mom was like "you act so happy when you are around him i just dont understand why you still keep going out with your b/f when all he does is make you grumpy and you get around your friend and all he does it make you smile." then she said to me " are you scared to break up with him, like do you think that he will go and do something to himself if you do? is that whats holding you back" and i've been thinking about it and i kinda think that thats part of it but i love him and maybe its just harder cuz he is my first love but i just dont know what to do please help

k my b/f and me have been going out for over a year and half almost 2 years and this weekend he went to strip club for the first time b/c his friends wanted him to go and i got upset b/c i didnt want him to go. i just didnt think that it was right that he HAD to go watch naked chicks shake their "stuff" on him. so like i feel like i dont look good enough for him and that there is something wrong with me that he had to go to a strip club. so ok i was very mad at him and i just said well if he's going to go out and have fun then so am i...so i called up one of my guy friends who i hadn't hung out with for a very long time and we hung out and everything and i kinda got caught up in the moment and we did stuff and now i regret but i really dont b/c im sick of being crapped on cuz his friends are so much more important than i am anymore. i want to be with him but im sick of getting crapped on just cuz of his friends and i just dont know what to do b/c i kinda really like and starting to love my friend and he really likes me too and like we have known each other for 4 years now and we went out for like 2 weeks once and then we just decided to be friends and we have fooled around these 4 years exepct for like a year or so but like a year ago he told me that he loved me. and that just keeps going thru my head but i need some help and fast so please somebody help me

so ok my b/f and me have been going out for over a year and half now and i feel like we are falling apart. i feel like we aren't as close as we used to be and i feel like he doesnt care about me. k so like the past month in a half he hasnt been himself he always wants to spend time with his friends and do their little things that they do and he never wants to just spend time with me. and like the nights that we are supposed to spend time together and his friends come over he doesnt say hey we are spending time together can you come back later, and he is always on the phone with them and it just makes me mad cuz we havnt spent time together for over 2 months. and like he blows me off all the time b/c his friends come first b/c he doesnt want to make them mad and im just getting sick of his friends getting picked over me. on friend one of his friends and me got into cuz he was going to take me b/f to a strip club and i didnt want him to go so his friend called me a (B)itch and my b/f didnt say anything to him for it and then i called his friend an (A) ss and omg my b/f flipped on me. i just feel like its coming to an end and i dont want it to but i do b/c im tired of getting treated like crap but idk what to say to him cuz he never wants to listen...cuz i still want to be with him but he needs to change or something if anybody has any ideas i would really like to hear thanx

k my b/f's friends want to take him to a strip club for his b-day and im totaly against them i think that they are so nasty and gross. and he has always said to me ..." i dont need to look at any other girl your so perfect" so now it makes me feel,since he wants to go, that there is something wrong with me....but he just doesnt understand but am i wrong for not wanting him to go?

idk if im pregnant or if its something else but like i have been feeling sick lately like at night. and like my boobs have been growning and i just feel crapy lately. but my boyfriend said that his mom said that it could be just because i take my birth control pill at night....idk whats wrong will somebody please help