bzborow1 Posted July 10, 2003 Share Posted July 10, 2003 You've all read my story...at any rate, after about 3 months I get a call from my ex, asking me to come over and then go to coffee with her. I told her ok as long as I get some errands run. At any rate, she started playing games with me...ie...wrestling with me, purposely rubbing against me...ie...legs as she walks by...etc...etc... But it doesn't end there, I tell her i've gotta run, I leave, and later on MSN she tells me that we get along sooo well together...she asks me if i still love her. At this point I figure this could be a trick question, either she's trying to see if i'm still after her as a sign of my weakness, or she's prying to see if she should make a move towards me. Well I told her I do care about her...but it's hard to love someone who's done the things she has. So here I am. Did I do the right thing? Not that I want her back, I don't, because I'm happy where I am and she hasn't matured at all...but what do you think her intentions are by asking that? It just seems like a really odd thing to say. It should be noted that I never made any advances, jokes about the situation, or anything of the sort. Regards, Bill Link to comment
j-boe Posted July 10, 2003 Share Posted July 10, 2003 Bone her, leave her. The end. -J Link to comment
cobro Posted July 10, 2003 Share Posted July 10, 2003 I think you did the right thing. If you go back to her, she will hurt you again. I give you props for standing up to her. I know if my ex asked me if I still loved her today, I would not be able to say no, even though she is with someone new and I am starting a relationship. So bottom line, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! cobro Link to comment
Faust Posted July 10, 2003 Share Posted July 10, 2003 She would have just screwed around with you until you really cared about her then hurt you again. When she calls again have some other girl anwser the phone. Link to comment
bzborow1 Posted July 13, 2003 Author Share Posted July 13, 2003 Well I was at a concert this weekend and accidentally ran into my ex with her new bf. I must say it was a great experience!!!! Now I know she's losing a lot more than I am. 8) Link to comment
greenie Posted July 15, 2003 Share Posted July 15, 2003 mad props for not letting your lower "brain" lead you. I think its awesome that you got out of the relationship and feel confident about yourself, it's just going to make her admire you more. Link to comment
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