Cowman Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 Okay, so pretty much I'm going to the homecoming dance with this girl I really like. I plan on kissing her when the time is right, but, I've never kissed anyone, and I'm afraid things might go bad. What I need advice on is pretty much, that I'm not talking about making out with her or anything, but this "first kiss" can't be totally stupid and just a peck or anything.. How long should this be? I obviously wouldn't use my toungue or anything first time, but how should I go about this without it being some stupid "peck"? Link to comment
rosalyn1223 Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 aww thats really sweet...but ok the only thing i can think of right now is while ur dancing n wahtever wait for the right time.....(if like ur just looking at her, like right into her eyes or something like that)then just lean in and give her a kiss...and it can should be howevr long u want it to be.......n dont be nervous...cuz then it might make her nervous...just be calm...ok well good luck!!!!!!!!! n i hope this has helped u Link to comment
c00kie Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 planning these things probably isnt the best thing. youl probably notice the right time to move in (hard to describe, everyones diff, but some full on eye contact, and close dancing are some signs lol). youl know when to stop, as shell probably slack off the kissn back and ease off. just go with the flow, and check out the other posts on first kisses.. Link to comment
Markers Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 look at her lips, she'll get the idea of what you're planning to do, and probably will make it easier (like, not trying to dodge you or something lol) Link to comment
ShySoul Posted October 15, 2005 Share Posted October 15, 2005 Don't plan. Don't worry. Don't even think. Just kiss. It all comes natural. Link to comment
ole21 Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 yeah trust me, do not plan it! just a few weeks ago i was lookin forward to this friday night that i was goin to be with this girl and was planning the perfect first kiss, but the time that i imagined never came. so, it was actually at a football game and, so we were around people the whole time and she kissed me once on the cheek. then i realized i couldn't wait till we were all alone, because that would be a couple hours, so while i had my hand around her waist, i turned my head thinking id just kiss her on the cheek really softly and all, but then she turned her head too. so i just went with it and it ended up just as a peck kinda, but it felt good! and when it was over she put her arm around my waist and pulled me closer. basically don't plan just go with it and love every moment of it, because it won't last forever. Link to comment
harmonized Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 First kiss is nerve racking! It fills your stomach with butterflies with all the possiblities! But don't think about it! Don't plan and don't analyize. Just go with it you'll do fine and you'll know when the right moment comes. Link to comment
Pheonixpassion84 Posted November 9, 2005 Share Posted November 9, 2005 Well, I'm a girl, but I do agree that you shouldn't plan it. It should be natural. Before I got my first kiss I was all worried it would be all wrong and I would really screw up, but when it happened, I wasn't in the least bit nervous, it just happened. I hoped this helped I hope all goes well and smoothly Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 12, 2005 Share Posted November 12, 2005 Don't plan on how you'll kiss her, it comes naturally in that moment. Link to comment
pumkin_fairy Posted November 13, 2005 Share Posted November 13, 2005 ok babe take it easy, dont plan kisses. they just happen. maybe lean in slow and give her a long kiss. it could be a kiss goodbye or hey a kiss hello is always nice! What i like is when a get a little kiss then a long kiss and then tongues.. but i could be considered a sl*t, i don't know how it works in america. Choi! Jenny xx Link to comment
Kamue Posted November 18, 2005 Share Posted November 18, 2005 first kisses are fun. but again, dont plan it. just do on her what youd like her to do to you! i remember my first kiss. my friend, who was sitting next to me just kinda leaned in a kissed me! i was confused but very happy. the surprise was an excellent expirience and his lips on mine felt so good. i dont think it really would have mattered if he accidently bit me. all that mattered was that he did it! Link to comment
MajinBu Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 lol dont plan stuff man... only makes things worse... i was expecting a first kiss too and i did get it... but i didnt plan anything at all... i tried to empty my mind before anything else.... hope you get to it ^_^ Link to comment
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