nina45 Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 Please let me know that you are ok Link to comment
Vanilla Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 Rayana, I am glad you got out of that relationship. With all due respect I think it was turning you into a monster for a little bit at the beginning...now you will finally breathe again and when time takes care of all the pain, you will see that you made the best decision EVER. Congratulations. I admire people who have the courage to get out of miserable relationships and not stay blinded by their "love" ...you have shown the great self esteem you have. Nothing is more empowering in a woman than her confidence and self esteem. Good for you. Link to comment
Silver Glow Posted January 18, 2006 Share Posted January 18, 2006 So? Did you dump his sorry excuse of a _____ ? (Insert appropriate word here please.) I know you posted that you had but... are things going okay for you now? Link to comment
Rayana Posted January 23, 2006 Author Share Posted January 23, 2006 Yes we have broken up. Its over! Three years down the drain. I cant be with him anymore. Im actually relieved. But, how does one recover from a broken heart? Its so painful. Link to comment
nina45 Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 You leave it alone, it will heal by itself. And read my 1st reply to you, no matter what happy memories you had remember, she had them too and he broke her heart too, he is not worth your grief, not worth one tear Love, Nina Link to comment
Rayana Posted January 23, 2006 Author Share Posted January 23, 2006 Its so difficult, all i do is cry. I love him but cant be with him. Towards the end all he did was defend his ex. I took one look at what my life would be like married to him and ran for the hills! There is no way i will EVER play second best... EVER! The pain will pass, its just a question of time. Link to comment
nina45 Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 Rayana, he is a liar and a coward, how can you cry over him? He lied to you and to her, he abandoned his wife and child and he ababdoned you, he is a ( ladies don't use that kind of language) right now it hurts, but one day you willrealize what a blessing it is that you are rid of him Link to comment
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