lost1607306437 Posted October 14, 2002 Share Posted October 14, 2002 Well i need some pointers on wether or not I should ask my friend out. I have known her for about 4 years now but we werent actually friends til the last couple of months...ive had a crush on her since ive known her. The thing that puts this situation on a very awkward level is she is my best friends sister and shes 4 years older than me im 20 shes 24 (but the age isnt the big thing). Well heres a list of things to consider: -We went to six flags recently and she rode most of the rides with me instead of the other 2 friends we went with -We have talked about some things involving us being in a relationship but mostly when drunk or in a joking fashion. -It is hard to find time alone with her to ask her out since she has 3 other people that live with her and she doesnt have a vehicle and works a lot. -She flirts with a lot of other people and not just me so im not sure if i should take the things she says seriously or if she is just playing with me like the others. -She hasnt gone out with any guys since we became friends and i havent gone out with any women since we became friends. Well there is other things i could write here but ill see if anyone replies before i go into more detail. This has been eating me up for over a month now on wether or not to risk ruining our friendship on a crush or if there might actually be something there on her side too. Thanks Link to comment
libra8104 Posted March 6, 2003 Share Posted March 6, 2003 NNNOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! OK? NO! OMG! NO! Why? Because either one of three could happen: 1) you ask her out, she is not physically attracted to you, and then you feel hurt and embarrassed, and end up avoiding each other, thus ruining a great friendship 2) you ask her out, she says yes, you are in love for a while, then it doesn't work out, and it's akward, and you avoid each other, thus ruining what once was a great friendship 3) you ask her out, you guys fall in love, live happily ever after amen look, i don't know....if i were you, i wouldn't...but what do i now? do whatever feels right Link to comment
Araxoth Posted March 17, 2003 Share Posted March 17, 2003 GO FOR IT! My current partner was a friend for quite some time before we got together. Worked out great for me. Link to comment
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