desertgirl Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Question for the girls or guys I guess. I've been looking for pictures of vaginas because I think I'm different. I'm too embarrassed to ask in person so here goes. All the pics I see are of girls with slits only. You can't see lips or anything. My lips are outside my slit. I mean, I can tuck them in to make it look like them but it's not the same. My clit is also visible. It's also very very sensitive if a guy tries to rub it directly. Gotta have the hood covering it. Is anyone else out there like me? Link to comment
jna35 Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 We're all unique, so don't compare yourself to others. I don't think there's a "right" way or "wrong" way for it to look. If you are in physical pain, you could consult your OB/GYN, but it could just be that the direct stimulation is too much. Maybe he's not being gentle enough, just a thought. Link to comment
shes2smart Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 I believe Sheyda (?) put up a post with a link about this very topic not too long ago. There's a lot of variation in what's "normal" for female anatomy. You might want to look for that link. Link to comment
RayKay Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Question for the girls or guys I guess. I've been looking for pictures of vaginas because I think I'm different. I'm too embarrassed to ask in person so here goes. All the pics I see are of girls with slits only. You can't see lips or anything. My lips are outside my slit. I mean, I can tuck them in to make it look like them but it's not the same. My clit is also visible. It's also very very sensitive if a guy tries to rub it directly. Gotta have the hood covering it. Is anyone else out there like me? I think you are looking at the wrong pictures...look at medical references. Things like porn etc use airbrushing, and many girls even have surgery to remove their labia or cut them down. Everyone's genitals are different. Some have larger inner labia, some have smaller ones, some clitoris' are more exposed then others. Many of them even if covered are very sensitive if rubbed directly, so guys who know know how to tease and give it a break sometimes too! Direct pressure for many makes it overly sensitive. In other words, you are completely normal. You are no more different then the next girl, whom is ALSO different. No two penis' are the same, neither are two vagina's Link to comment
Tigris Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Don't worry mine hangs down sometimes. If it does and it's causing a problem like rubbing against my jeans (very uncomfortable), I go to the toilet and push it back up. It's worse when I'm aroused! Hope this helps. Link to comment
desertgirl Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 she2smart, how do I find the sheyda link? I'd love to check it out. And RayKay, thanks for the info. I've not been with many men even though I'm not a kid anymore so that makes me feel more confident. Link to comment
shes2smart Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Yeah...my memory's not entirely shot...here 'tis... Link to comment
Tigris Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Do you have sex with your boyfriend? Link to comment
desertgirl Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 Tigris, you got it exactly!! Especially when wearing a thong. Sometimes it really get uncomfortable. And, yes, when aroused, it does "enlarge"? My "friend' did say though that the lips feel real good as they slide over his dick..... so that's a good thing! Link to comment
desertgirl Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 she2smart, you're awesome! I'm on my way! Link to comment
RayKay Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 It is normal to "swell" when aroused..increased blood flow! And for normal men that should be a turn on, it's the same reactions they get when aroused the blood increases to their penis It makes the area fuller, and softer for sex. It feels good for him and you, there is a reason for bodies to work the way they do! Link to comment
danigirl27mi Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Your not alone, I have the same problem and thought other girls had normal vagina's and mine was just ..well-not normal. I will check out the link also! Link to comment
desertgirl Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 the link from she2smart was right on the money. Thanks for enlightning me! Love it !! Link to comment
shes2smart Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 I have a hard time remembering anything anymore, but for some reason that thread -- I remember....go figure. Glad to have been of assistance. Link to comment
Tigris Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 So desertgirl what are you complaining about when your boyfriend says it's ohhh sooo goood? It's uncomfortable wearing clothes. Find somewhere to rearrange yourself. The worst time for me is when I get into the bath. (No shower in house.) I lower myself into the water then ARRGHHHH. The water's too hot! Take care. Link to comment
Tigris Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 I've just seen the site and I thought it was good too! Link to comment
desertgirl Posted July 28, 2005 Author Share Posted July 28, 2005 tigris, no complain...... just wondered if I was different......... felt a little intimidated that's all............. I deal with the thong thing..... Link to comment
Vert Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 I think all vaginas are works of art in-and-of themselves. I think most women assume that men want a flat vagina with the lips tucked inside but this is not the case. In fact, a "puffy" vagina or one with big lips is AWESOME to give oral to... trust me, its more fun that way Link to comment
Tigris Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Vert you're getting me horny! lol Link to comment
Vert Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Vert you're getting me horny! lol Woohoo! Link to comment
Vert Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Hehehe... glad I can entertain Honestly though, part of the fun of giving a woman oral is getting sloppy in there, and a puffy vagina or one with big lips makes for a lot of surface area to have fun with I've had both a big lipped girl and one with the flat surface... I enjoyed both the same, but big lips were just more to work with Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted July 29, 2005 Share Posted July 29, 2005 Well thanks in the boost in confidence VERT... lol I think you can compare them to roses... no two are the same.. and they are all beautiful, different and works of art. I liked this thread.. lol. Usually its the guys who are worried that they are NOT big enough... or what their size is... how many women do you hear about complaining about the size of thier nether lips...lol. Went to the links... Wow.. didn't realize there was that much variation to the female genitalia... learn something new everyday. Link to comment
Vert Posted July 29, 2005 Share Posted July 29, 2005 Just like no two penises are the same, no two vaginas are either. It's exactly like a fingerprint, and unique to each of us. Link to comment
Lexicon85 Posted July 29, 2005 Share Posted July 29, 2005 I'm like you and I love my vagina, I love that there's something to look at... my boy says it's the prettiest he can imagine. Link to comment
desertgirl Posted August 1, 2005 Author Share Posted August 1, 2005 well, hope you'll all be happy to know that my guy noticed that I was a but more relaxed about letting him give me oral. It was a good feeling to not have that lingering question on my mind. Yeeehaa! Link to comment
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