moodindigo91 Posted February 9, 2022 Share Posted February 9, 2022 This is more of a vent than anything. But my ex left me back in December. I've been going through a lot since then including getting over this relationship, studying for the bar, caring for my dog, trying to find a place to live and a job, etc. The breakup itself was already annoying protracted because he had to come back a bunch of times to get more things that he left behind which made it hard to me to make any progress in getting over the relationship until the last time he came. I have been no contact ever since and I've made lots of progress. But today I was annoyed when I opened my mailbox this morning after walking the dog and found a package addressed to him inside. He moved out over 2 months ago! I'm sure it was a mistake but I feel like it has been long enough that this mistake shouldn't happen anymore in my opinion. Anyway. Luckily I don't feel set back by it but I made sure he's blocked on all modes of communication because I don't want to hear from him lol Blah! Link to comment
Batya33 Posted February 9, 2022 Share Posted February 9, 2022 I'm sorry- I'd just drop it off when he's not home or mail it to him. Good luck on the bar!!! 1 Link to comment
moodindigo91 Posted February 9, 2022 Author Share Posted February 9, 2022 9 minutes ago, Batya33 said: I'm sorry- I'd just drop it off when he's not home or mail it to him. Good luck on the bar!!! He moved to another state and didn't leave me an address 😂 I put return to sender on it and left it for the mailman. That's all the action I am taking haha And thank you! I need it! 3 Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted February 9, 2022 Share Posted February 9, 2022 1 hour ago, moodindigo91 said: He moved to another state and didn't leave me an address 😂 I put return to sender on it and left it for the mailman. That's all the action I am taking haha And thank you! I need it! You did what I was going to say to do. Good for you! 2 Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 9, 2022 Share Posted February 9, 2022 9 hours ago, moodindigo91 said: 😂 I put return to sender on it and left it for the mailman. That's the only action you need to take. If he left the state, you're not responsible for holding his belongings indefinitely. You can toss, sell, give away anything you want at this point. Sever all ties. Change all your passwords and check your credit scores. 1 Link to comment
catfeeder Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 On 2/8/2022 at 7:46 PM, moodindigo91 said: He moved to another state and didn't leave me an address 😂 I put return to sender on it and left it for the mailman. That's all the action I am taking haha Perfect! That's symbolically a great gesture for you. Keep up the great work, and trust that even when you have a bad day here or there, we all have those. Head high. 1 Link to comment
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