Turkish girl a lot less communicative but still agreeing to dates. Is she still interested?

[Wiseman2]

9 hours ago, viking37 said:

 Probably better off finding someone who likes me and has a lower key lifestyle. 

Good idea. Let some other fool be this budding alcoholic's wallet.

There's plenty of women who would be interested in you as a person and share common interests.

This bimbo just wants someone to escort her to bars and pay for drinks while she gets drunk and stupid and flirts.

[jazz_lover]

I'm fine with her being tired or down or busy with work etc. But usually girls come out with these excuses when they are trying to hint to guys they have lost interest and want to be left alone. I texted her saying I was sorry to hear that and to let me know when she is feeling better and work has quietened down but she didn't bother responding to that which isn't a good sign. 

And I guess with her it seems to be very all-or-nothing. She was bombarding me with texts and photos last week and wanting to see me all the time. Then last couple days she barely responds out of politeness and has completely stopped initiating texts or trying to make conversation. And similarly some dates she is warm and affectionate and happy to make out and sleep with me. Others she is cold and distant and only lets me peck her on the lips or the cheek. So the contrast does feel quite striking and makes me feel insecure and uncertain. 

But I guess I'm starting to get some closure. I can try to justify the drinking and enjoyment of going out when she's showing me a lot of attention and being affectionate and sleeping with me. But when she would rather hang out with other men at the bar and goes cold on me for days it doesnt feel good at all and can see I'm better off without her. 

 

[Batya33]

You're better off not interacting with her.  You were never with her except with in a physical way when you were having intercourse.

[Wiseman2]

2 hours ago, viking37 said:

she would rather hang out with other men at the bar and goes cold on me for days it doesnt feel good at all and can see I'm better off without her. 

She Is An Alcoholic. Don't expect decent sane behavior.

[MissCanuck]

3 hours ago, viking37 said:

similarly some dates she is warm and affectionate and happy to make out and sleep with me. Others she is cold and distant and only lets me peck her on the lips or the cheek. So the contrast does feel quite striking and makes me feel insecure and uncertain. 

This is your cue that this is a waste of your time. 

Consistency is key in dating. She blows hot and cold as it suits her, which generally means one's interest is only superficial. 

Stop trying to make this happen, man. 

[smackie9]

you are being pretty gullible if you think you can make this work.