brahman Posted May 27, 2005 Share Posted May 27, 2005 okay so when i date a girl for some reason a long time ago i decided that i wasnt allowed to watch porn while i masturbate and that i could only think of the girl i was with. the longest i every went without porn was about 2 and a half months. its only been about two months with this girl about about 3 days ago i started watching porn. the feel incredibly guilty afterwards. so i decided to remove my computer and all porn related things from my room. me having my own computer in my room was what sparked my porn craze, the PC sucks so i use it to do what ever. any thoughts? Link to comment
pizzachick13 Posted May 27, 2005 Share Posted May 27, 2005 you shouldn't feel so guilty... so you indulge in porn when you masturbate... what's wrong with that? i'm sure most people do... including me. dont worry about it... if she doesn't know, it doesn't matter. and unless she has a problem with it then why should you feel guilty? Sappho Link to comment
Nick82087 Posted May 27, 2005 Share Posted May 27, 2005 I feel what your saying, I would feel guilty too. But if this helps you feel better, just know your doing your prostate a huge favor A recent study prooved that if a male masterbates five days a week, between the ages 20-40, his chance of developing prostate cancer is decreased by a third. The study suggested that stored ejaculation fluid in the prostate, after time, can become the carcinogens that lead to prostate cancer, so "releaving yourself" does you prostate a great favor. Hope that cheers you up Link to comment
RayKay Posted May 27, 2005 Share Posted May 27, 2005 Masturbation is normal, and for many men being the visual people they are, masturbating with porn is normal. Heck, women masturbate with porn too (though more women tend to use words/stories to fantasize from my discussions with them). Unless it is interfering with the intimacy in your relationship, or your girlfriend objects to porn and you feel that you need to hide it from her, I would not feel guilty about it. Link to comment
itry Posted May 27, 2005 Share Posted May 27, 2005 u have absolutley NO reason to feel guilty whatsoever. porn/masturbation is normal. id much rather have my significant other masturbate to porn to release sexual tension than to cheat Link to comment
Empathy Posted May 27, 2005 Share Posted May 27, 2005 I can understand feeling weird or bad about masturbating. But I usually just get uncomfortable because I sometimes wonder if all of my dead relatives are watching me...hee hee Link to comment
itry Posted May 28, 2005 Share Posted May 28, 2005 I can understand feeling weird or bad about masturbating. But I usually just get uncomfortable because I sometimes wonder if all of my dead relatives are watching me...hee hee see?mastrubating to porn isnt weird... thinking about peeping tom's ur related to..thats..umm....DEAD....now thats weird... lol Link to comment
Empathy Posted May 28, 2005 Share Posted May 28, 2005 Hee hee. I'm assuming you know I was joking. Link to comment
darkblue Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 LoL! well that's probably thee most off topic comments i've ever seen and No [to return to topic] you shouldn't feel guilty as it is very natural for a man to have an aid in the process of masturbation db _____________________________________________________________ Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.' Erich Fromm Link to comment
TheVindicator Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Normal for men, eh? What about the wemmenses? The ladies? Can't they beat their meat to a jumbled tune with pictures? Ignoring the fact that I myself don't really dig porn. There isn't really a 'romantic' genre-you know? Either or, lotsa women chill with porn. In fact, I'm sure you and your girl have a few of the same vids Link to comment
AlleyCat Posted June 2, 2005 Share Posted June 2, 2005 about about 3 days ago i started watching porn. the feel incredibly guilty afterwards. so i decided to remove my computer and all porn related things from my room. I guess I'm the first to disagree with everyone else on this topic... Many women have a problem with porn, so I applaud you for thinking with your brain instead of just your uhh... other parts. I've seen countless topics on this site posted by women who are upset because their boyfriend looks at porn. You need to find out how your girlfriend feels about porn before you decide whether or not you should feel guilty about it. If she's okay with it, you can go for it with a clear conscience. If she's not okay with it, personally, I think you should feel guilty about it, and should try to find solutions together to prevent you from feeling the need to look at porn. Link to comment
SuperNurse Posted June 6, 2005 Share Posted June 6, 2005 I just think about my boyfriend. Well, sometimes Keanu Reeves or similar, but either way don't need much more, just a hot bath and the water proof epilady and the workday stress and coming up class test fade away. I sometimes wonder if my dad notices how rare I have shaved my legs when I 'shave my legs' so often. Link to comment
June4life Posted June 6, 2005 Share Posted June 6, 2005 dont feel guilty about it. masturbating is completely natural.... whether ya want to admit it or not, almost everyone masturbates. as for porn, if you like it, thats all that really matters. Link to comment
G_Casanova Posted June 6, 2005 Share Posted June 6, 2005 Just don't leave the porn in the VCR for others to find (e.g., mother [guilty], girlfriend [guilty], kids [my buddy is guilty of this], VCR repair guy [college girlfriend's brother did this]). Link to comment
G_Casanova Posted June 6, 2005 Share Posted June 6, 2005 By the way, nobody > uses those Epilady things to sctually shave their legs, do they? (I'm thinking of the thing that rips the hair out-not really a razor.) Another reason to thank the good Lord I was born with a penis... Link to comment
echoxerox Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 One of my friends broke his sister's vcr while trying to watch a video when he was housesitting for her and her husband. The tape got stuck during ejection. Figuring it was his fault, he took it for repair to some guys he knew at the local community college. They got it out, fixed something bent, and tried to repair the somewhat damaged tape. Putting the repaired tape back in, they (my friend and three or four other guys) were treated to some a very short but explicit excerpt of homemade porn featuring my friend's sister, her husband, and a big red dildo. He put everything back the way he had found it and spent his housesitting time reading or watching tv from then on. Link to comment
G_Casanova Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 Wasn't there a song called, "A Big Red Dildo"? If not, there should have been. I must say that I found something wonderful about the contrast between the simplicity of your post, Itry, and the comparative complexity of your signature. Back to topic: I think I tried to make this point elsewhere, but I believe that, quite generally, mind you, pornography is the major male sex aid. As long as everything is fine when in the company of an actual partner and one doesn't build a collection the size of the Library of Congress, I see no problems with it. Link to comment
OverParanoid Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 u have absolutley NO reason to feel guilty whatsoever. porn/masturbation is normal. id much rather have my significant other masturbate to porn to release sexual tension than to cheat I have to totally agree ... I would rather have my husband masterbate to release sexual tension then to cheat...watching porn is far more acceptable then a cheating spouse/mate... Link to comment
SuperNurse Posted June 28, 2005 Share Posted June 28, 2005 Mr Casanova is right I think. Masturbating is fine and most prople probably do it but you don't want anybody to find things youre using to help right? I don't have a big red dildo (maybe he is thinking of the Red Rubber Ball song?) but the epilady can sit there and look regular so nobody can see its true meaning. Like underwear catalogs in the mail for the men in the house! Link to comment
ShySoul Posted June 29, 2005 Share Posted June 29, 2005 It would probably help to know why your doing this. You feel as if looking at other women in a sexual manner is cheating on her, that being with her means that she is the only one you can think of in that way. And your a good guy for having those believes. On the other hand, you've gotten in the habit of looking at porn, which can be a hard habit to break. So which is stronger to you, those beliefs or the porn? It could also help to know what her opinion on porn is. If she has no problem with it, then that will help the guilt. Link to comment
brahman Posted June 29, 2005 Author Share Posted June 29, 2005 i actually told her a few days ago, she doesnt seem to have a problem with it. Link to comment
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