acamp16 Posted May 18, 2005 Share Posted May 18, 2005 Hi. I am 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for exactly 1 year and 1 month. It's been a long time! It started out pretty good then we had our ups and downs...It started being like we'd have an argument once a month, then every other week, then every other day, then every day. It would seem like we'd break up every day then get back together... I mean, I love him very much, but I don't think he feels that way anymore. He was doing fine for about 5 months and now all of a sudden he's going back to the name calling and threatening... He brings up crap from the past that I did to hurt him and he promises that he won't because otherwise it's not going to work. I don't bring up the things he did to me because I actually want it to work... We'd be just fine for one minute then we'd start talking about something from the past, of course, then we'd start argueing... Does he like to fight with me or what?! I don't understand him anymore! When he's mad he acts like a completely different person and I don't even know. I told him I can't be with someone I am going to be afraid of if he keeps doing this. I would want to break up with him and stay away, but he comes over to the house the day after... I don't know. He can't act like an adult and be civilized about this and just be like ok it's done I won't come around... You know? I don't know. I just need somone else's point of view and if you want me to explain this better than just write back. Thanks! Link to comment
DN Posted May 19, 2005 Share Posted May 19, 2005 Don't stay with someone who calls you names and threatens you. Dump him fast, tell him you don't ever want to see him again and go no contact. If he harasses you in any way, call the police. Link to comment
acamp16 Posted May 20, 2005 Author Share Posted May 20, 2005 It's hard because I've tried avoiding him and everywhere I turn he's like right there, it's scary... I would call the police, but when he's pissed off to the extreme he said that that's the last thing I'd want to do. It gets old and I just want him to leave me alone. It's sad that someone can act like that, I don't get it.... Link to comment
punchy504 Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 in the first post you said you wanted it to work, in your last you said you can't get rid of him, make up your mind Link to comment
acamp16 Posted May 20, 2005 Author Share Posted May 20, 2005 You don't get it. Pay attention. I would want it to work, but it doesn't seem like he's ever going to change that's why. I would want to stay away from him because it's just too much drama for me. Link to comment
sweetsound Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 if you want to break up with him them do it about him coming over don't answer the door try to find some one that can love you snd treat you like the world. the thing about fighting it just symbolizes that he scared to lose you thats why he does it but what he dont realize is that he's losing you just keep your head up Link to comment
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