Why so quiet?

[RayRay63]

I'll probably say something Sunday too once we're parting ways. Nothing bad.

 

I think you have two choices.

 

Choice A.

 

Don't say anything at this point. And don't say anything on Sunday either.

 

Just don't initiate contact after that and see what happens.

 

You appear to be coming to a realization that despite being attracted to her, she is not a compatible person for you, due to her communication style.

 

If you are sure of that now, cancel Sunday. Given her track record, she might anyway.

 

Choice B

 

Go Sunday - and ask her what she wants out of your interaction. Not something at the end, have an adult discussion half way through.

 

If she doesn't bother asking you in return what you want out of it, that gives you an answer as to what to do next.

 

If she does ask, tell her. If you are thinking of quitting anyway, you won't lose anything by doing that.

[Wiseman2]

When you are this busy reviewing and rehashing your game plan repeatedly in the locker room, you'll never get out on the field to play, no less win.

[Trolly]

We didn't end up hanging out the other week because her grandpa passed away then spring break came.

 

But she said she wants to hangout again soon soon we'll see I guess.