ex called

[thefields]

i sent my ex a long story about how i care for her and told her im gonna leave her alone..she hasent called at all since like a month ago unless i called first..but shes been telling me shes not been doing good, and is really down. She called me today with out any notice, i havent called her back, and its making me feel kinda down. not sure what to do, its almost 10 so maybe its too late to call back tonight anyway..ugh

[DN]

Don't call back. See what happens. If and when you do talk to her have low expectations and guard your heart. But make she you do not initiate any calls.

[thefields]

yeah man. I was real busy when she called and was just like "we can talk later if you want" she just said ok but..still kinda like saying " i will call you later" and not doing so..but i guess your still right upon that ^^. Dont want her to think im gonna tell her one thing and not do it but saying "we can talk later" isnt quite " i will call you later" confusing

[lady00]

Does she still have a bf? I'm just thinking...if she's down, it's not fair of her to try to lean on you cause it just messes with your emotions, especially if she's with someone else.

[guy40az]

I agree i wouldnt call her back you told her you were going to leave her alone and i would stick to it. she will call you back i am sure but you have to be ready for wha tshe is going to say. If she has been telling you she is down then she wantes to talk to you.

 

I was just wondering did she leave you are di you leave her ??

[DN]

yeah man. I was real busy when she called and was just like "we can talk later if you want" she just said ok but..still kinda like saying " i will call you later" and not doing so..but i guess your still right upon that ^^. Dont want her to think im gonna tell her one thing and not do it but saying "we can talk later" isnt quite " i will call you later" confusing

 

I think it leaves it up to her to call if she wants to. But cool that you told her you were busy!!

[thefields]

she left me, its been several months, and i told her straight up i will always love her, i respect her wishes and im going to leave her alone. But shes been feeling real down, and i still have this security to were if anyone is going to mess with her emotions, there gonna have to deal with me -.-' but im just thinking outloud.