HelpAware Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 I am leaving my job in 3 weeks time and my boss and I get on very well. I only work part time. She is not married and I feel we have a connection. I asked her jokingly if we were going to see each other again. She is openly bisexual as am I. I have hugged her in the past and I have felt an attraction between us however she is 10 years older than me. I want to ask her out properly but would she just decline outright? I feel that life is too short. I think she is beautiful. Link to comment
smackie9 Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 No one can answer that. You will just have to take the risk and ask her out. Link to comment
j.man Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 If she's got an IQ higher than 60, or hasn't watched the news in a solid two years, or is, at the very least, a professional, she'll turn you down. She's your boss. Should you ever find yourself exploring your career elsewhere, by all means hit her up. For now, there's a hefty and perfectly ethical boundary precluding a romance. Link to comment
HelpAware Posted April 13, 2018 Author Share Posted April 13, 2018 No one can answer that. You will just have to take the risk and ask her out. Thank you for your reply. Link to comment
HelpAware Posted April 13, 2018 Author Share Posted April 13, 2018 If she's got an IQ higher than 60, or hasn't watched the news in a solid two years, or is, at the very least, a professional, she'll turn you down. She's your boss. Should you ever find yourself exploring your career elsewhere, by all means hit her up. For now, there's a hefty and perfectly ethical boundary precluding a romance. I'm leaving in 3 weeks so she won't be my boss any longer. That is why I'm posting this. Link to comment
Pleasedonot5 Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Careful if she will be moving into a related position somewhere else. You don't want to burn any potential opportunities. Otherwise, after three weeks, yeah might as well go for it. Link to comment
j.man Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 I'm leaving in 3 weeks so she won't be my boss any longer. That is why I'm posting this.Well, once you've gotten her reference and are employed and situated elsewhere, ask her out on a date. Link to comment
greendots Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 Definitely don't rock the boat until you have officially settled in elsewhere. Link to comment
HelpAware Posted April 14, 2018 Author Share Posted April 14, 2018 Well, once you've gotten her reference and are employed and situated elsewhere, ask her out on a date. Thank you for your advice. Link to comment
HelpAware Posted April 14, 2018 Author Share Posted April 14, 2018 Definitely don't rock the boat until you have officially settled in elsewhere. Understood. Thank you. Link to comment
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