Ljbx Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 So I met this guy when I was out with my friends. He was very persistent and he woyld really show his interest. We would go out, party,dance, get crazy! One problem: I was going through the worst breakup ever, and I was far from being over my ex.I could tell he was really feeling me but i was still thinking of my ex, which i told him about. He still wanted to see me everyday, planed all sorts, wants to go to the spa, the movies, go out, everything, every day .. his best friend even told me : my friend really really likes you..give him a chance heS a good guy. Buti still couldnt bring myself to like him the way he liked me. I had my ex stuck in my head. I told him. Told him i was lost and confused, that i still have deep feelings for my ex and that IM thinking of going back to him.. he looked sad but he kept on texting me every once in a while..until he saw my social media with pictures that I was back with my ex-boyfriend. Couple months later, things are no better with the ex. We call it off again, this time for good. I took time to myself to be alone and mourn my relationship. A couple of days ago i decide to talk to him again. He answered and was very pleasant. Then he texted me one night to see me. We had the time of our lives, and madeout for hours. But he seemed changed... like he didnt trust me at all. Going in rants like : girls are savages in 2018..theyre worse than men!! He kept going on with that for ever..trying to play some sort of badboy role, but then he switch to himself again and tells me the sweetest things. Again and again... we woke up & went to get breakfast and he was very affectionate.. The problem is I always text him first. I asked him to go see this new place that had just opened & he played it cool like : ill let you know. But he would still text me to go a couple of hours later to go. Its been like this since weve started seeing each other again. Its like hes fighting with himself. He wants to see me, which he does, and when he does he would be all affectionate, show lots of PDA, put his arms around me very possessively whenever were out and theres guys around or talking to me, hug me from behind, grab my arm..He would kiss my forehead and be super gentle and the next minute go on another rant, be rude, sarcastic and throw wierd shady comments at me. He wont text me first or at all when were apart and always waits for me to make the first move. Hes going on vacation tomorrow which is the worst timing in the world. He doesnt even look thrilled about it! He says that things are more fun here and that his friends forced him to go..Even asked me to go with him...But then again the next minute he takes back everything he says, he gets cold.. a monster! Is he trying to get revenge because I rejected him the first time? I wasnt ready& I was honest with him. I dont understand all this mind games hes playing right now and I dont like it at all. What should i do? Link to comment
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