gjw Posted March 5, 2018 Share Posted March 5, 2018 In the beginning of November my boyfriends mother committed suicide. He was away at work at the time of her doing so and had to come back knowing what had happened.. the funeral has passed, as has her birthday on December 4th (which he hadn't told me about) and Christmas, and new year, and it's now coming up to mother's Day.. he'll be away at work during this day but I don't know whether to bring the subject up.. I'll be at home in our home town where his nain lives (he is very close with his nain) and I'm not sure whether I should offer to go and see his nain, take her flowers or something in such a time where he's in able to.. and also if I suggest taking flowers or some sort of mothers day gesture for his mum.. there's not only this day but days to come, such as the anniversary of her death, or her next birthday, I'm not sure on how to handle these occasions without crossing a line and without coming across as inconsiderate.. I could really use some advice, he's quite happy to not talk about anything ever unless I bring it up, so I don't want to push any boundaries especially at such a sensitive time.. Link to comment
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