Almost at breaking point.

[Markus223]

Okay, so i'm a 17 year old male .Pretty laid back i would like to think.

Let me start by telling you my story.

My first ever "relationship" was when i was 13 over facebook. Nothing too special. After that ended i haven't had a girlfriend sense then. It didn't really bother me that much up until december of 2016.

I was going through some pretty hard stuff in my life and a relationship would have helped me a lot. So i started looking. After numerous failed online chats trying to land a date, i started talking to a girl who was 17. We talked and nothing really came out of it. Same thing happened with another girl. At this point i was falling into depression and was becoming increasingly more desperate. It got to the point where i was literally willing to be in a relationship with any girl (a stupid move now that i think about it). Because me and my friends where hanging out at the same place everyday, girls would stop by there too. So i started talking to...i don't wan't to say the ugliest, but i guess i could say the least "popular" girl there. I can say that i gave it my all trying to land a relationship with this girl.There was NO talk about sex and that stuff.I was focusing on the emotional connection ext. She rejected me like i was nobody, yet i had been talking to this girl for one and a half moths. I didn't know what to do at that point. I just lived with it somehow. About a month latter after that happened, i came to find out that that same girl, was hitting on literally EVERY guy in that area. So a girl, who was known as an easy to get, naive girl, some would even say "" didn't wan't to be with me in a relationship.

 

I don't think i'm a bad looking guy.I found that i am a lot more emotionally conscious than other guys my age.I'm not a " boy" nor am i some softy.

Any help as to why i have absolutely NO luck with love would be great.If you have to, feel free to criticize me in any way.

[Jillstrand23]

You need to find a connection with someone at your age and level who can relate to you and calling her ugly is kind of mean. Why did you approach her if you think she is not attractive? Are you that desperate? Find someone your going to swoon after.

[Markus223]

I'm trying. The thing is, when I do find someone, I can never seem to land a date. Maybe my "game" is bad?

[Jillstrand23]

Well first start a conversation with someone and just ask them about their life and what they like and all kinds of other topics to talk about. Let that happen for a while and then you will know when the moment is right to ask them out. Don't push too hard.

[Markus223]

Thank you. I'll give it a try.