Maddyb12 Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Hello all, I’ve been a bit upset about the actions of my “best friend” the last week or so but haven’t addressed it yet and need some un biased opinions to weigh in. We’ve been best friends for three years. In April she invited my boyfriend and I️ to go to Hawaii the same week she had to be there for a wedding. She told us what days to go and the hotel her boyfriend and her were staying so that we could book at the same place. We both arrived late Thursday and the wedding she was in was on Monday. We spent Friday together and did a luau, come Saturday we spent about half the day together (my boyfriend and I️ and her boyfriend and her) around 3:00 some other friends had landed that were also there for the wedding so she hurried out of lunch to get to their hotel to see them. Her boyfriend invited us along but we declined because we didn’t want to intrude. After seeing her Saturday she basically acted as if we weren’t in the same hotel same city for the rest of the week. On Sunday morning though she called and woke us up at 6:30 am asking for a ride to drop off the mopeds they had rented. Other than that she didn’t attempt to see us or even say goodbye. My boyfriend and I️ had already imagined that we wouldn’t spend much time with them because of the wedding but to not hear from her as soon as other friends arrived was pretty shocking to me. This is someone who I️ spend majority of the day communicating with when I️ say Best friend I️ mean it. I️ gave some distance over the week and just said to let me know if they had anytime to hang out. The only times ive heard from her since was asking a favor or texting about an opinion on her make up clothing etc all stuff related to her. We left the day before them, she didn’t text to have a safe flight or even attempt to say bye to us. I️ texted her the next day saying happy birthday and to have a safe flight she didn’t respond until hours later and it seemed she only responded because she had a question about the rental car service we used. I️ haven’t said anything and am unsure if I️ should but I feel incredibly hurt and lost some respect for her over the weekend. It felt like I️ only mattered when she didn’t have something better to do or when she needed a favor or wanted to talk about herself. Any advice? Do I️ have a right to feel this way or am I️ being sensitive? I’m debating on trying to talk to her about it but this isn’t the first time that our friendship has been one sided and I can’t help but feel that maybe she’s just a selfish person. Link to comment
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