the bf's first time...

[my childs mother]

Hi! My boyfriend and i want to have sex at this stage in our relationship... however we're both living with other people (he lives with his parents and brothers) while i live with my roommate @ college. So the opportunity hasn't really offered itself... I was wondering, 2 questions.

 

1. where is a good place to have sex for the first time?

- (A) should we wait til we have a place to ourselves some random day?

- (B) a hotel?

- © Other?

 

2. are there any things i should know about having sex with a virgin? my boyfriend is a virgin and I just want to make this a pleasurable and good 1st time for him... not uncomfortable, or such...

 

THANKS!!!

[cleverme123]

I would suggest the hotel idea because then your not rushed about someone walking in. Oh and on virgins....they don't last very long the first time, so play nice

[Cecelius]

Just don't make a big deal about the fact that it's his first time. Most guys know its a throw away anyway, but avoid making a big deal and he won't get any additional insecurities over it (if he has any)

[my childs mother]

thanks

[providentielle]

The hotel is good if you can afford it or you could wait till your roommate is out one night. Just do what feels good and remember that practice makes perfect! I also feel I have to do my mature bit and say remember to use some form of protection. good luck

[lisica]

Getting a hotel room might cause unnecessary stress, like: "we got this room especially to have sex, so now WE GOT TO HAVE SEX or it is a waste of money". If I were you, I would let my bf choose when and where to do it... or at least give him the impression that he is choosing ;-)

[servedchilled]

Why not speak to your roommate about it?

 

See if they can go out for the evening, set a time between you, ure roomy and ure bf.

 

As said before, make sure he knows that protection is a YES YES and you're both 100% certain about making this next move.

 

When I say 100%, I don't mean, "well he is and I guess I am" or "spose I am". I mean 100% that your relationship will be better after it. Remember, you dont get anymore sharing than sharing your body.

 

Good luck hun,

 

Have fun

[Caldus]

^ *agrees with above poster*