Daisy78 Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 Hi! I've been good friends with a guy for sometime now. I get on really well with him. We attend a music club together and have done for several months now. I was in a relationship with an older guy for several months before I ended things due to him being disrespectful and extremely controlling with me. I am currently being more ambitious and have set myself goals and I feel better about myself after a toxic relationship. I've enrolled on a college course, trainung to run marathon and taken up indian cookery courses.I have been single for a few months now and my male friend has very recently ended a long term relationship with his partner. He has moved to the state in which I live too and said he wants to spend more time with me as I'm good company. I attended a music event last week with him and we really enjoyed the day.. I get on really well with him even though he's 20 years older than me. He said after the event we could "take things to the next level". I said i like us being friends though and we get on well as friends.. but as I left to drive home he said "we can take all the time in the world"... now he's text me asking for us to meet outside of the music club. I don't feEl attracted to him and I don't want to take things to the next level. How should I turn him down? I don't want to ruin our relationship as friends. I like him but as friends only. Bit upset about it really as.I thought we were only friends and I don't want to hurt him but if I go to this event he might think I want him and it might lead.him on. I've never flirted with him... just been usual self. Link to comment
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