1a1a Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 I'm attracted to this guy, he's attracted to me too but very firmly in don't want a relationship right now territory. (Still healing from the last partner, wants to spend the next two years working and playing music). I'm trying to work out what I want. I'd like to date him, (I'd like him to want that with me). But I'd like that because I'm attracted, I don't know him really. I'd like to be intimate, unresolved sexual tension is definitely a thing. But after that, will it get him out of my head or wedge him in more? (The gamble). In the immediate present though I'd like to get him out of my head. We've tentative plans to catch up next week but I'm quietly noticing the lack of small talk that was happening before. And feeling like if I break the silence I cede my power (not that one should want power over another but I don't want to get into a dynamic where I chase and he runs). I've got a lot of the kind of work where there's long periods of not much to do, how do I get him out of my miiiind? Link to comment
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