megrcex Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 I need help. Here's the situation. So I've been with my boyfriend for about over a year. We are now in a long distance relationship. I moved back to Cali after graduation, but he's still in the other side of the world in the Philippines. He didn't graduate at the same time cause he had a few minor classes he still had to take. He's done now, but still has to check if his grades are okay and if he passed, so he can complete the grad clearance, get his transcript and diploma, and come back to Cali. I always try to encourage him to do it and just start and get one thing done. But he's just unmotivated and lazy to do it. We've been in LDR for almost 6 months. I love him to death and I just want the best for him. For him to be happy and have success. To get his stuff done and come back to Cali. I feel bad sometimes cause to come back here and see me is not enough motivation for him to fix his grades/transcript. I feel like he's not trying to close that gap of the LDR, cause he's not trying to get stuff done. He can't stay in that country forever and he has to come back sooner or later. The thing is, also, he's not sure if he wants to be in the nursing field (cause that's what he took). He doesn't know what he wants to do. So maybe that's why he's not trying to fix his stuff. Sometimes he gets depressed or down about not knowing what he wants to do, or being stuck, but doesn't do anything about it. Like even though he isn't sure with what he took up, at least work on it and he'll figure out what he wants eventually. I wanna try to encourage him to start with his transcript. Just one step at a time. Yet my trying to encourage him doesn't work. How can I help him? (Side note: being in ldr for almost 6 months makes things harder cause I can't be there physically to help him.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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