ADVICE PLEASE

[sweetchick]

I asked this guy ive been seeing the other night what he thought me and him were and he said "dating" well hes alittle older than me and he's like I dont know what the new term would be lol. He said that he means me and him are seeing eachother and no one else. Is that like relationship or what??

[DN]

yes, I think it is a relationship if you are seeing each other exclusively. It doesn't mean you are necessarily going to get married but it does mean you are boyfriend and girlfriend at least.

[Gracey_Lee]

it means that you guys aren't all serious, but it's understood that you won't get with other guys, and he won't get with other girls... that is now officially cheating. CONGRATS! you're in a relationship!

[Drizown]

Relationship, Congrats.

[Aksinia]

This sounds familiar...

 

On our second date (right after an intense kiss) my boyfriend asked me "what are we" and I said "really really really good friends." He laughed and said that he could deal with that. After about a month of seeing eachother exclusively, he asked me again, and I said "dating" but then asked him what he wanted. He said that he didn't think it was really dating, and that he considered me his girlfriend. I just said "I'm cool with that" and we lived happily ever after.

 

Perhaps you should do as my boyfriend did and tell your guy that you consider him to be your boyfriend. If he really likes you, he'll be ecstatic