Gracey_Lee

yeah... i've done it... and i still do it sometimes. kissing is just kissing... if i'm out at a party and i drink a lot... and i'm bored... or if i'm just lonely, i'll make out with just about anyone... as long as i'm sure that they don't have serious feelings for me.

](*,)yeah... haven't been keeping up with this thinger... but umm... nope... pretty sure i never insulted anyone.. all i said is that i think it's a bad situation to get into. *shrugs* i don't care if you agree or not... that' what i think. i just don't think a relationship can work with that big of an age gap... he's already gone through what you're going through now... you're 25 years behind him... he's going to retire way before you. what about children? that brings up a problem... he's almost 50... he'll be retired before your child is a teenager.

](*,)umm.. he came home and came over to see me at like 5:30 in the morning... my friends and i just kinda hung out and talked to him... nothing really happened. i missed him... but boot camp had changed him so much. and now he's engaged to some girl that he hooked up with before me... whatever... even though she cheats on him, what goes around comes around... but i wish them the best of luck..

but i don't know what he expects when he comes back... i thought he was sincere and he made it known to everyone else that he was... but now i don't know. i have his address, so i could write him, but i'm at a loss for words... i wouldn't know what to say. i've had feelings for him for over a year now, and i don't wanna let him go, i'd really like to just start over once he gets back. should i even have any hope that he'll be all that he was before?

okay, adam and i were "seeing" each other before he went of to bootcamp for the marines and we never SAID we were official, but i figured that we became official when he asked me not to see anyone else and to wait for him to get back from camp. was i mistaken? was it cheating if he was hooking up with someone else right before he left? and what should i do when he comes home? i haven't waited for him and he doesn't know that i know about him and sarah. i kind of wish i had waited... just for him, but if he couldn't make it, then why should i? please tell me what you think.

Listen Crikket, i didn't offend you in anyway... you put your problem out here for everyone to comment on and i told you what i think... and i also said i hope you do what makes you happy.. so if gettin it on with someone almost old enough to be your father makes ya happy rock on! i'm just sayin... it's not something I'D do. If you don't have a problem with it, then why are you posting about it on this site? something must be wrong

Think of how much happier people would be without the commitment of marriage! We should all just have committed relationships, that way we keep our stuff and don't have to spend all that money!

thanks! i kinda knew that, but it sucks SO bad to see everyone all IN LOVE and i can't even keep a boyfriend! Grrr

no, i don't think you should even be with him... keep him as a friend... not a love interest! He's 47 which is WAY to old! He shouldn't even be with women who are that young. Maybe he's having a late mid-life crisis... but what are you gonna do when he's all old and you're not? Like it'll be weird cuz he'll be retired and you'll be at the bar! Well i guess it matters if you see it as that kind of a relationship or just a fling. I personally wouldn't do it... but what it comes down to in the end, is as long as you're happy, more power to ya.

it means that you guys aren't all serious, but it's understood that you won't get with other guys, and he won't get with other girls... that is now officially cheating. CONGRATS! you're in a relationship!

okay, i have this problem in relationships where after a month and three days... i have to break it off. my last four relationships ended exactly a month and three days. I don't plan it, but after a month, i get annoyed by everything they do and three days later, i break up with them. It's bad because I want a relationship really bad, but all i wanna do right now is just have lots of one night stands! I'm missing out on a lot of great guys cuz i'm afraid to even get in a relationship cuz i don't want things to change. Why can't life be full of random hook-ups? wouldn't that just work easier?!

okay, when she does something with these guys, then toss her on her ass. until then... have a little faith! she's with you for a reason! As for her girlfriend thinger, so! Tell her how you feel, but maybe you'll get freaky with both of them... if you're not into that, maybe she isn't either! She's with a GUY right now... so why would she go to a chick?

sorry hon... as much as i hate to say it, i think it's over. Even if you two get back together you'll always have this problem and things will never be the same. Go back to him if it makes you feel better for now, you might notice traits that you don't like. I know it's hard to move on, but it's for the better, anyone who can't give you a straight answer isn't worth the tears. no man is ever worth your tears, the one that is will never make you cry