seebee Posted July 3, 2017 Share Posted July 3, 2017 She broke up with me about 2.5 months ago after a year together. She was about to move in to my house (we were "long distance" but saw each other 3-4 days of the week) the week after we broke up. First month we were low contact and mentioned trying things again. But then at that same time I found out she was talking to another guy and I went NC and have been ever since. They are dating now. She has contacted me around 4-5 times. Most recent being a few days ago she emailed me to catch me up on her life, and she was really nice about things and said she hopes I am enjoying my summer and stuff like that. Then the next day she had her mom text me to see about shipping some of her belongings back home. She also messaged my mom that same day asking about these belongings and my mom told her to ask me because she had no idea about them, and she replied "why would I ask him its my stuff". I am 21 she is 20, so im not so sure why our parents need to be involved... Then this weekend we randomly ran into each other kind of. I was with a group of my friends and her and her new boyfriend walked by and one of my friends yelled something at them and she turned around and waved and smiled once she realized who we were. I think about her every day and miss her so so much but I havnt broke my NC yet because I feel like it is helping me. I want her back, but I also want to give her time to grow and see what she really wants as well. The way she handled a lot during the break up makes it seem like it wasnt what she wanted to do, but she was too stubborn to go back on the split (at one point early on she said "god forbid my parents think somebody is good for me"). She was very hot and cold; even sending me long emails saying there will always be a spot for me in her heart and later in life we will find our way back to each other. I guess I just want some opinions on all of this. I know you guys will say she is choosing not to be with me so its obviously over, but deep down I can feel something still there and I know our relationship was too great to just be forgotten. We were perfect for each other. Link to comment
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