So confused. Please answer!

[Emmy321]

If you feel that you want to kiss someone after a date, wouldn't you call that a spark. I mean if the spark wasn't there .. you wouldn't feel that you want to kiss them. Right? ... Esp if you know your date wanted you to kiss them.

[DancingFool]

Not necessarily. Sometimes people will want to kiss to see IF there is a spark there or not at all.

[Emmy321]

But you don't know till you kiss them

[mustlovedogs]

But you don't know till you kiss them!

 

That's basically exactly what DF said...

[xcookie7x]

for me personally, i'll be on a date and if it seems to be going well and that we have chemistry i will kiss them. and if the kiss feels "right" i consider that a spark. then again, there can be emotional sparks too like if you just are on the same wavelength and agree on everything and seem to mirror that person in all ways. i guess it depends on the person tbh. sometimes when you kiss someone you feel nothing. sometimes when you kiss someone it just feels "right".. but then again. you might feel a spark and they might not. sorry, hope that helps somehow. lol

[Emmy321]

Your right sorry. Let me rephrase. If the feeling was there to kiss them, doesn't that mean something!

[tattoobunnie]

Actually nothing! I've kissed more guys than I can count. It's fun. But then, I'm looking forward to going home, and getting into my PJs by myself.

[limichelle]

I don't necessarily believe a spark has to be because of a kiss. There can be heat, and an electric connection by touching their hand or sitting close to them and your vibes are strong.

 

I do agree that wanting to kiss someone is based off attraction not a spark.