Emmy321

I guess just stop messaging him and see what happens

no, In reality it can't be just digital thing and Yes I would like a in person thing.

I get how it may sound to you but He doesn't feel like a stranger to me...we may have never met in person offincally but we have connected on facetime a few times.

Thanks everyone for all you input!

I guess I thought since he was still responding to me that it was ok and that if he didn't want to talk to me at all, he would of just ignored me all together or blocked me.

we were going to meet and would have met but he said he needed time to focus on a finding a new job<<<<this has stop us from meeting a MONTH ago... He really took it hard..

I suppose we did wait to long but we couldn't do it before I left for vacation out of the country. He was understanding about waiting.

Since the beginning of July I have been talking to someone I met online, we messaged each other pretty frequently and video chatted a couple times. I went on vacation the last week of july and came back the beginning of Aug and I also stayed in touch with him during that time. We were finally going to plan to meet when i got back but things seemed really diff with him, I talked to him so much that I could tell the difference. I asked if somthing had happened and he told me he lost his job and this part is kind of long story but he said that he needed to focus on finding another one and few other things going on in his life which I do know about. He asked for some time and I told him I would give him all the time he needs. He always answers me when I reach out here and there but he never reaches out first anymore. am I overthinking things or did he meet someone else. I don't want to push him away but I can't be gving time ..if hes not even there anymore.

Thanks for your advice and it sounds like you have a wonderful family. I am happy for you!

Oh, I meant It's been months since he's shown me that he is interested, he asked for it last week and I only gave him my number just two days ago!

I am was little anxious. It has been few months and wondered if he was going to ever ask me me out. He did take the first step and asked for the number but don't know if he'll use it. Thanks for your help!

Is that all you said? You didn't put in more about yourself or did you save all that for conversations?

Hi, How did you write this on your profile so it wouldn't sound like a book? Online dating is a struggle with me too and I never know what to write in the bio section, if guys even read it. I didn't want to start a new thread on this subject since its already here.

No I understand, I just have to patient to see if he actually uses it. Thanks!

lol.. That is a very good point!

I don’t know, I guess I got my hopes up that something was happening between him and I, when it could nothing or prob is. Thanks everyone who responded to help!

Well, we weren’t shooting the sht come to think of it. I brought up that he could reach me on work pager for work tho. Then he asked for the number, I’m not sure. Oh no!

I wouldn’t say I was cold. I did smile and said hi to him but I was shy about it. I’m not shy anymore now.

well, come to think of it, We weren’t shooting the sht. I brought up that he could reach on my work pager for work and then that’s when he asked for number. Oh no!

Thanks! This is exactly what I’m dealing with and I guess I’m over thinking a little bit.

It’s ok, I guess I’ll have to wait. Thanks for your reply.

Clearly it kind of matters to me or I wouldn't be here. Now I am thinking I shouldn't posed at at all

because he could of just wanted it for work related reasons which is why I questioned what he said after I gave it to him.

I did not say it was not normal, I also think you missed my point about the 500 people comment. I understand it may not seem like a big deal to you but these situations can be misunderstood. I like him and I don't want to of misconstrued it. no one is complicating things, I simply just wanted someone else's opinion. That is all. Have a great night.

well, It really isn't just his stares. I mean I work with 500 other people, I look at them and they look at me and it's no big deal but with him it's different, it's like his whole face lights up, I don't know how to explain it, I guess. I do understand what your saying. It matters because I don't want to be wrong. Thanks for your reply!