mx40123 Posted May 30, 2017 Share Posted May 30, 2017 So... I’ve been friends with this girl for 2 years, she had a bf when we met but she was going through a rough patch and ended up at mine all the time before she left him – she didn’t cheat on him with me but during that time I started having a crush on her. I went to visit her a couple of times after she’d left him and we ended up sleeping together, but she was insistent that we worked better as mates. She then got a bf and I got jealous (I know), but they split up and she got back into contact with me. We met up a couple of times as I’m moving for a job that’s nearer to where she’s moved and she suggested we go on holiday together. …So we leave in 10 days! – and I still like her… But I know she’s still dating other guys. What do I do? I want to raise the possibility of us being more than friends and asking her if she’ll see how the holiday goes as an extended date.. or do I just see what happens? I just don’t like the idea of her finding someone else before then.. I have no idea why she's going on this holiday with me but I honestly just feel she's probably using me as emotional backup like before... I don't like where my mind's at with this. Every decision I make seems to be the wrong one with this girl. She hasn't set out the ground rules, we've kind of brushed the troubled past under the carpet and not really said anything about it, about feelings or anything like that... To be honest I was shocked she wanted to see me and now I'm just doing my usual overthinking.. It's kinda my thing.... She currently lives too far away for me just to casually meet up with her until end of June so meeting up beforehand isn't really an option.. What do I do? I really need help with this haha.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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