torigal Posted May 30, 2017 Share Posted May 30, 2017 Ok i am having major trust issues and need to know if they are valid coz im losing my mind.. I have been with my partner for 15months.. we met online hes 30 im 38.. after a month of what i thought was magical.. he up and left me for his ex.. stating he shouldnt have gotten involved with someone when he still had feelings for her. This was news to me as i thought they were well over but turns out it was only 4 months. This crushed me and I should have ran for the hills then but i didnt .. a week later i msgd him and he came back telling me he did the wrong thing etc .. since then ive had no trust.. he constantly ogled other women when we went out .. i wasnt getting enough attention from him and when we fought i messed up and texted another guys pics etc to try and feel validation.. (i know a bad move and i feel sick for doing it)he found out and was not happy .. he tells me he doesnt trust me anymore ..i told him i just need to feel loved and sexy to him.. he rarely gave me compliments.. has a porn addiction altho never said no to me for sex he reckons thats why he ogled women.. anyway i had drinks with a friend and his mate one night while he was jamming with this pretty redhead.. he asked who the other guy was i didnt tell him coz i didnt know.. anyway he had D&Ms with this redhead .. slept there with a few other peeps coz he dont have a lic .. and then went out with her and a few others the next day .. all the while i asked him if he was coming over..he said i ignored him first when i didnt text him back who i was with.. i then found a text between them with her saying stuff like "i think ur cool but im trying to find myself "etc .. he deleted what he sent prior and he just reckons he asked her if "she found him attractive".. i know ive done the wrong thing by texting guys but i was willing at the very start to put 100% into this relationship.. he has made me have 24/7 anxiety .. please help what should i do hes currently begging his way back.. im too old for this crap Link to comment
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