Bluekiwi99 Posted May 30, 2017 Share Posted May 30, 2017 A bit over six years ago I met a girl and we fell in love instantly, we were both 20. It wasn't physical attraction, it was truly love at first sight. We were together for three months and then she moved to the other side of the world for uni. We promised we were going to see each other again and be together once we had jobs etc. We never saw each other again. After she left I met an amazing girl, she is the love of my life and I'm marrying her this year. I'm really happy with her, I'm truly are and have no doubts about spending the rest of my life with her. The thing is, my ex and I never really broke up, she left and we always had the hope that we were going to be together, the first year with my actual partner I didn't think I was going to fall in love like I did, I was always waiting for my ex to come back. Now that the years have passed, I know I don't love my ex but I think about her frequently and I smile, I guess I never really got over her, we had a relationship like a movie, everything was perfect, we never fought, we were just so happy together. We talk to each other on our birthdays and that's about it, she also has a partner. I am going to be in the country where she lives in a few months and I really really want to see her. I haven't told her I'm going because I haven't decided if I'll tell her. I don't know what to do, I know that if we meet we'll probably kiss or more and I don't want to cheat on my partner. She doesn't deserve it and I do love her very much. I just want closure, I want to see her and know that that's actually the last time we'll ever see each other. Help please, should I ask her if she wants to meet? I know if I don't I'll most likely regret it forever. Link to comment
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